chops_a_must
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You just don't get it do you Whiskers.That's a simple matter of behavioural and social science. You are primiraily responsible for your children. Israel didn't make them brainwash children to be human bombs and as far as I'm aware Israel doesn't reciprocate this absurdly abusive behaviour.
Yes you do.
Toxic people drain you, sap your energy. Everything is about them. They see the world from eyes that see only themselves and how everything relates to them and their needs. No one else's feelings or thoughts ever carry much weight. True empathy does not exist.
There are many different types of "toxicity" but they all in some way drain you. Toxic people have not learned to fulfill themselves and have little self love so they in essence must "steal" your energy. Unnecessary drama, mountains made out of molehills, rage or blow ups over inconsequential things...
http://www.healthyparenting.net/spirit/toxic.php
Well this is quite a laugh!
We have someone who fancies himself as a conflict resoluter who is actively escalating conflict in this thread with a pious, arrogant and biased attitude.
I am amused! LOLOL
...you actually passed this course? Good grief!!!!
I'm not right fighting the issue, rather highlighting the issues involved in conflict resolution.
The very first issue before you can even start to resolve a conflict is to recognise the other party's concerns... the highest of the high concerns in this case is the right (of Israel) to exist.
The next major issue as highlighted earlier is to participate in the conflict resolution process with a high degree of emotional maturity and the big issue there is to have enough emotional maturity to be responsible enough to leave the children out of the conflict and the resolution process... to keep them safe.
Surely buy any reasonable measure of humanity and civilised laws, those parents who allow, or worse, train children to be human bombs and use them as human shields are grossly neglegant and guilty of child endangerment, child abuse and or murder.
There is no issue of 'Right Fighting' as a bad behavioural trait in highlighting this... simply right and wrong in law and humanity as our police and social workers face all the time.
Both sides have and are behaving in an indefensible way. And yes, of course, they should be mature and reasonable and obey all the rules of conflict resolution, each side making concessions, and leave the table with a valid plan for the future. That's how it works in theory."We must expel Arabs and take their places."
-- David Ben Gurion
"There is not a single place built in this country that did not have a former Arab population."
-- David Ben Gurion
"Let us not ignore the truth among ourselves ... politically we are the aggressors and they defend themselves... The country is theirs, because they inhabit it, whereas we want to come here and settle down, and in their view we want to take away from them their country."
-- David Ben Gurion
"There is no such thing as a Palestinian people... It is not as if we came and threw them out and took their country. They didn't exist."
-- Golda Meir
"It is the duty of Israeli leaders to explain to public opinion, clearly and courageously, a certain number of facts that are forgotten with time. The first of these is that there is no Zionism, colonialization, or Jewish State without the eviction of the Arabs and the expropriation of their lands."
-- Ariel Sharon
How pompous.With all due respect Wayne, are you interested in playing the issue or the man.
I emphasise the point I made earlier that you have not yet grasped.
Wayne, I'd prefer not to get into judgemental bashing of forum members, but there is clear demarcation of what is acceptable, right, wrong or good judgement when discussing an unrelated party's behaviour as this thread intends.
I'll gladly answer any question you have and provide further references about the process and the issues if you would just nominate any issue or part of the process I have discussed that you may have a problem with.
For example, the welfare of the children in this conflict.
Chops contrary to your assertion, in fact I do get it. I've passed a course not only in conflict resolution, but Group Conflict Resolution, ie the facilitation of many people at a time through the conflict resolution process.
Chops, what if the palastine authorities and Hamas had put more resources into hospitals in their own areas rather than spending the money on ancient very inaccurate rockets and the like in a futile attempt to effectively do little more than antaganise Israel?
I'm just putting a question of logic, reasonableness, to you. It's a matter of the quality of choices people make for their circumstances. The Palastine authorities are responsible for those sort of decisions that they made themselves.
Chops, what do you suppose Israel would do, or more to the point what would you do, if a new Palestine Authority denounced past policy of annihilation of Israel and ceased fire?
How pompous.
Whiskers, what you have failed to grasp is that with all your conflict resolution mumbo jumbo, is that you have stumbled at your own first hurdle, in judging by your own set of values what is right or wrong.
In so doing you are kicking along the conflict in this thread with your comprehensive bias and sanctimonious judgements.
I submit that:
a/ you have no idea of the issues in the whole conflict
b/ you have no idea what you are doing with regards conflict resolution
For a true unbiased approach, look to Julia's post one above this one. I would give the job to Julia and make sure you were at the antipodes of the conflict.
If you want to take a view as you have, fine. That's what everybody is doing in this thread. But to waffle about conflict resolution while doing so is ludicrous.
Whiskers, with respect, although to us so far away and without the stress of generations of conflict, it may seem 'sensible' and 'reasonable' to dismiss the impact of the 1948 issue, I think it's something ingrained into the collective psyche of the Palestinian people.Re the 1948 issues though, I expect there are few people whom were alive then and have recollection of those events still alive. So while there are teritorial issues there still, in terms of the current generation the more immediate and higher priority issues would most likely be more to do with living standards, health care and the like.
Whiskers, with respect, although to us so far away and without the stress of generations of conflict, it may seem 'sensible' and 'reasonable' to dismiss the impact of the 1948 issue, I think it's something ingrained into the collective psyche of the Palestinian people.
You have only to consider the views of our own indigenous people, whom I doubt will ever change their view that they were invaded, to draw a small level of comparison.
Whiskers, with respect, although to us so far away and without the stress of generations of conflict, it may seem 'sensible' and 'reasonable' to dismiss the impact of the 1948 issue, I think it's something ingrained into the collective psyche of the Palestinian people.
You have only to consider the views of our own indigenous people, whom I doubt will ever change their view that they were invaded, to draw a small level of comparison.
I think Israel blew its chance when Fateh was in power. Now they have to demilitarize Hamas, and then negotiate with them. It took around 30 years to do that with Fateh, with the advancement in science and technology, it will take only 15 or so years to do that with Hamas.
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