Two-way block

[Captain_Chaza]

Hi Skate
Let's see how the squealers like logging off and logging on every time I post a chart

I think this thread should be buried

Finita la Musica

 

[Skate]

Hi Skate
Let's see how the squealers like logging off and logging on every time I post a chart

@Captain_Chaza, responding thoughtfully and deliberately, rather than reacting impulsively, is a hallmark of effective communication. When we take the time to consider our words and tone, we can avoid triggering defensive reactions and instead foster a productive dialogue.

A measured response can help to prevent the conversation from devolving into tribalistic name-calling and personal attacks. By choosing to respond rather than react, we can create a safe space for respectful disagreement and work towards finding common ground, even in the face of significant disagreement.

Over the years I've noticed that some members seem to take criticism personally, even when it's not meant that way. Some members become defensive, dismissive, or even aggressive when someone tries to give them feedback or constructive criticism.



Skate.

 

[Value Collector]

@Rabbithop, to me, @Captain_Chaza is a highly emotive individual, and there's no doubt that his actions and decisions are influenced by his emotions. However, it's important to acknowledge that despite this, he possesses some remarkable and distinct skills.

If I had the authority, I would propose discarding the concept of the "two-way block" entirely, as it seems to hinder rather than facilitate productive communication.

Furthermore, I would like to highlight that @Captain_Chaza demonstrates a great deal of wit in his posts. In particular, his contributions to the "Dump it here" thread are consistently well-received and valued by our small community. His ability to inject humor and provoke thought in those discussions is genuinely appreciated.

Skate.

Blocking / ignoring only really works if it’s two way.

Because if you have some one you trully need to block, you don’t want them to continue to be able to see your posts, otherwise they can continue their abuse and you can’t see it.

But if it’s a two way block it shuts down the abuse.

 

[Skate]

Blocking / ignoring only really works if it’s two way - you don’t want them to continue to be able to see your posts, otherwise they can continue their abuse and you can’t see it.

Earlier today, @Joe Blow provided an outline that inadvertently enables members to view the content of someone who has blocked you. This unintended consequence raises concerns about privacy and the effectiveness of blocking features.

Joe Blow said:
"I must make one additional point though. I will not look very kindly upon anyone who, after being informed that they have been placed on someone's ignore list, persists in making remarks about that person in their posts, or who continues to respond to their posts, knowing that person cannot see their replies. Once you have been told you have been placed on someone's ignore list, the onus is on you to back off and focus your energies elsewhere".

Furthermore, I have noticed that the comments I shared above, which were originally made by @Joe Blow, are not receiving the respect they deserve from some members. It seems that when certain individuals display strong emotions and react quickly to posts, it creates an environment where others feel entitled to join in and perpetuate a negative pattern of posts.

Skate.

 

[Value Collector]

Earlier today, @Joe Blow provided an outline that inadvertently enables members to view the content of someone who has blocked you. This unintended consequence raises concerns about privacy and the effectiveness of blocking features.

Joe Blow said:
"I must make one additional point though. I will not look very kindly upon anyone who, after being informed that they have been placed on someone's ignore list, persists in making remarks about that person in their posts, or who continues to respond to their posts, knowing that person cannot see their replies. Once you have been told you have been placed on someone's ignore list, the onus is on you to back off and focus your energies elsewhere".

Furthermore, I have noticed that the comments I shared above, which were originally made by @Joe Blow, are not receiving the respect they deserve from some members. It seems that when certain individuals display strong emotions and react quickly to posts, it creates an environment where others feel entitled to join in and perpetuate a negative pattern of posts.

Skate.

I am not sure I like the idea of the honesty system. I think I would prefer that once I have decided to break off communication with a person, it’s done.

 

[over9k]

It seems that when certain individuals display strong emotions and react quickly to posts, it creates an environment where others feel entitled to join in and perpetuate a negative pattern of posts.

Isn't not reading that stuff the entire point of the block feature?

 

[Skate]

Isn't not reading that stuff the entire point of the block feature?

someone's ignore list, persists in making remarks about that person in their posts, or who continues to respond to their posts, knowing that person cannot see their replies.

@over9k, the block feature is designed to allow users to avoid seeing content from specific individuals they do not wish to engage with.
The "two-way" block feature is indeed intended to help users filter out unwanted interactions and maintain a more positive online experience. However, it is important to note that the block feature does not prevent others from discussing or making comments about the member who blocked them in the thread visible to everyone.

The underlying issue you mentioned is that despite being blocked by someone, there may still be instances where others continue to discuss or reference that individual in conversations. This can create a situation where the blocked person's presence is indirectly felt, which can be frustrating for the person who initially blocked them. These discussions may not be directly visible to the blocked individual, but they can still generate a sense of annoyance or discomfort for the person who sought to avoid them.

In summary, while the "block feature" is primarily meant to shield users from direct interactions with specific individuals, it does not guarantee complete avoidance of any mention or discussion about the blocked person in public spaces.

Skate.

 

[over9k]

Well duh. You can't control what other people post about. You can only control whether you want to continue reading it or not.

If you don't like what the others are saying, block them too.

 

[Joe Blow]

Entirely separate from the issue of the ignore/block feature is the issue of respect for others. Whether you like or dislike someone is irrelevant. Everyone here owes everyone else in this community a basic level of courtesy, civility and respect. It is something quite fundamental and integral to maintaining a constructive and respectful atmosphere.

If anyone here thinks that they are entitled to insult or disrespect other community members then I invite them to explain here why they feel they are entitled to treat others in that way. Trolls and those with the maturity of children are not welcome here. Please treat others with respect and civility at all times.

 

[qldfrog]

@Rabbithop, to me, @Captain_Chaza is a highly emotive individual, and there's no doubt that his actions and decisions are influenced by his emotions. However, it's important to acknowledge that despite this, he possesses some remarkable and distinct skills.

If I had the authority, I would propose discarding the concept of the "two-way block" entirely, as it seems to hinder rather than facilitate productive communication.

Furthermore, I would like to highlight that @Captain_Chaza demonstrates a great deal of wit in his posts. In particular, his contributions to the "Dump it here" thread are consistently well-received and valued by our small community. His ability to inject humor and provoke thought in those discussions is genuinely appreciated.

Skate.

Who are the lucky member of the community able to value his posts?
Anyone left?
As far as I know, I was put on ignore because I dared adding a thumb up to a post...
I would question the actual purpose the captain is posting, why does he bother: as again and again, he feel attacked and block right and left for the slightest sign of life/opinion.
It is a shame as I was trying to make sense of his colourful diagrams and I do not need to agree to follow people..

 

[over9k]

The better question is, why do you care?

 

[eskys]

Many moons ago, I found a framed print in either KMart or Target, and it's been our treasure ever since.

We aren't religious; I've never been despite a Catholic upbringing. Today, after days away, I came back and found this print at the entrance. (We haven't been able to find this frame ever since we relocated during the pandemic) Yet to find out how it was found.

I think it's apt to post it here today:

LET GO AND LET GOD

As children bring their broken toys with tears for us to mend,
We bring our broken dreams to God because he was my friend.
But then, instead of leaving Him in peace to work alone,
I hung around and tried to help in ways that were my own.
At last I snatched them back and cried,
"How can you be so slow?"
"My child" He said 'What could I do
You never did let go"

 

[eskys]

Who are the lucky member of the community able to value his posts?
Anyone left?
As far as I know, I was put on ignore because I dared adding a thumb up to a post...
I would question the actual purpose the captain is posting, why does he bother: as again and again, he feel attacked and block right and left for the slightest sign of life/opinion.
It is a shame as I was trying to make sense of his colourful diagrams and I do not need to agree to follow people..

I can understand how confused and hurt you are, frog. I saw that and didn't understand it either and wanted to question it but thought it better to let it go for fear of stirring more trouble....sorry I didn't support you then, frog, as you supported me with your likes.. I feel bad about that.

Edit: it's looking like Eskys's confession day again!

 

[dyna]

the actual purpose the captain is posting

Bit hard to follow at times, I 'll agree but like Mr. Skate , I figured out long ago , that this whacky poster has got his own dough where his big mouth is. ( beaucoup de respect de ma part )
So , for that important reason , I'll continue to sit up straight and pay attention. Just not got to annoy the dude , that's all !

 

[eskys]

A whacky wizard with a special crystal ball comes in handy if we pay attention and have faith. We need many talents on this talent show.

 

[qldfrog]

I can understand how confused and hurt you are, frog. I saw that and didn't understand it either and wanted to question it but thought it better to let it go for fear of stirring more trouble....sorry I didn't support you then, frog, as you supported me with your likes.. I feel bad about that.

Edit: it's looking like Eskys's confession day again!

Not exactly hurt, why should I care as I am not exactly alone in his blocked list, but was trying my best not to annoy him and just quietly try to understand his analysis etc
As mentioned by many, whether you agree or not, it is always worthwhile listening to other opinions when they are the results of proper analysis etc.
And I was putting the captain there, a bit weird but hey, I do not consider myself mainstream either, and the better for that.
PS I do not always do as I preach as I consider some (definitively blocked) posters as too dishonest to even consider their posts, be they true or not.
All in all, thanks for the block facility

 

[eskys]

I know that you tried your best not to annoy him and you have also been supportive of him, but unfortunately, he was blinded by whatever blinkers he was wearing (I don't now what they were/are) Yes, I am talking about the Captain. He can read this. At least I'm not talking behind his back and if he can see this clearly, hopefully, he can appreciate what I'm seeing/ what others are seeing. Not just what he sees.

This thread gives us a lot of insight into ourselves and others too, so is not lost. The forum will be better when we can be honest and voice our grievances as we do in a constructive way. All the best....

 

[farmerge]

Who are the lucky member of the community able to value his posts?
Anyone left?
As far as I know, I was put on ignore because I dared adding a thumb up to a post...
I would question the actual purpose the captain is posting, why does he bother: as again and again, he feel attacked and block right and left for the slightest sign of life/opinion.
It is a shame as I was trying to make sense of his colourful diagrams and I do not need to agree to follow people..

eskys must be the only member left who hasn't been made to walk the plank. I dared menton that I had made a small profit on a couple of trades. Then the tirade hit and the plank and blockage followed.
Gee that really upset me, I don't think.

 

[eskys]

I'm glad you're better, farmerge. Have a good rest over the weekend, you've earned it....see you Monday, take care.

 

[Garpal Gumnut]

I believe the Sewer Sailor to be Nuts.

I believe any of youse who engage with him to be nuts.

It is a sad state of affairs when I am the only person on ASF who is not nuts, and that includes @Joe Blow, who tolerates his rude, intolerant and antisocial behaviour which is harmful to decent members ( of whom I do not include myself ) of ASF.




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