The mind is the self - they are one and the same.
When you help someone (your example) and you feel freedom/joy as a result, it's because your mind will be silenced by the process. Any action which approximates love will have the same effect on the mind.
Given what you've said here, you probably won't like the book I recommended. But at its core, it is the same as Christian mysticism.
You know the darkness you feel when you start to let go of the mind? The darkness is the way the ego tricks you into avoiding falling into the Absolute (or what Christians would call God).
I'm not Christian, but I like to look at spirituality from multiple viewpoints. Bernadette Roberts was a Christian nun. If you're serious, you will be able to make sense of her work linked here, then match it with your personal experience of impending darkness and what I'm saying here. http://www.nonduality.com/berna.htm
Chapter 1 - "Roberts describes a quality of silence she had known on occasions, which was so total as to evoke fear, annihilation, point of no return".
They were regarded as heresies or something from what I saw . Still though, he was open to some kind of truth from the holy books.
These things alone might be drudgery for a person.
I wouldn't want to put myself through drudgery to help others. Self-flagellation is based upon misunderstanding, imho.
I've met some very dreary and unhappy people who give all their time to volunteering when they should be helping themselves. The underlying belief is that by grinding away in charity work (in the name of God) they will win some big prize after they die. I could never agree with that.
Adam felt fear and the need to wear clothing for the first time...
“Put yourselves on the ways of long ago and enquire about the ancient paths: which was the good way? Take it then, and you shall find rest. “(Jer)Yes fear and shame are the root of all evil, and these are a by-product of duality (in the non-dual traditions). I tend to think all religions are talking about the same thing. At the beginner level, these perspectives look totally different - enough to wage wars over. But these perspectives converge the further you progress on the path. eg. what you refer to as 'mortification' I'd refer to as earnestness or dedication. And I'd agree that dedication makes certain things easier.
I re-read that Bernadette article because I hadn't read it in ages. Man, she went through some ****! Left me thinking ..."where's the love?". It's not a path I'd pursue myself, but it makes for fascinating reading.
Hello Brother,
I too join others in expressing remorse, sorrow and regret at this act. Intolerance, hate and mental disorders stoked by what is NOW accepted as free speech, is NOT who and what we are. That, being Australian, to our shame, our home bred person who went to our dearest friend, NEW ZEALAND and committed this act, is not who either we, as Australians are or New Zealand is.
Intolerance, hate, couched often in weasel words, is what it is. Despite being of a different faith, and possibly a different colour, god forbid, I was inspired by one act in the face of hate filled intolerance.
“Hello Brother”. A man, in Christchurch, a man, faced by a rage filled, hate filled maniac, greets a person whom he knows will and is going to kill him with two words. “Hello Brother”.
This man, a MAN OF FAITH, a man devoted to peace, in sheer display of acceptance and love. Without anger, without fear, greeted a man he knew would kill him with two words. Words of greeting, of compassion, with kindness. “Hello Brother” and his reward was three bullets, as he was executed.
This man, a man I wish I knew. A man of a different religion, set of beliefs, in his last moments showed what a pathetic monster and intolerant hate filled person one must be to commit this act.
In this good mans last moments, he displayed a level of faith, few could ever aspire to.
I wish for peace and tolerance and express my deep sympathies and disgust for this act whilst offering what I wish, was the power, that could take away the pain this man has caused to so many.
Ex-Muslims who understand full well what is happening in Islamic states are being shouted down when the try to talk or show support for those being oppressed.
Which side are you an activist for?I think a better site for your views ...
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Which side are you an activist for?
If I wanted people to hate the left I'd post the stuff you are posting.
If I was on the delusional left side, then expected.
If its truly neither then I need to ask "Are you ok".
I tried to pm previously to keep it private, but I'm on your block list. Perhaps you are just passionate, maybe high strung. But I'd rather know before quoting you and ratcheting your levels up any further.
Fair enough..
Is that plain enough ? I am neither left of right, just human.
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