Value Collector
Have courage, and be kind.
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yes lived in sin for 4 or more years in a house we both built when I was 21. Loved her to bits right up to her passing away a little over 3 years ago....knocked the stuffing out of me and I still weep a tear for what we had ...she was my best friend and a cracker in the looks dept = bonus.
Weddings and bonded marriage suits many, but not me, the ties that bind should be worked on daily with love, affection, admiration and individualism celebrated to create 2 people power, not an absorption model so many couples seem to melt into.
I am sorry you had to go through that, my sincere condolences.
I totally agree with your post, as I said I think the government should butt out of the marriage recognition business, but as long as they are in it, it needs to be fair, with no discrimination. If you and your partner love each other, and commit to each other, who is the government to tell you your marriage doesn't count.