Julia
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Knobby,
You are in a position to observe humanity at its best and worst. Yes, we will all admire those who suffer pain and indignity stoically, but when we are dying to do should be our choice.
Some of us will accept such a situation without question, possibly based on their religious beliefs. Others will accept such a situation also without question, simply because they have gone through their entire lives in a passive fashion, not seeking to change what happens to them.
But others of us find the concept of loss of dignity, loss of choices completely unacceptable. I am one of these people and am with Prospector here.
It has nothing to do with pain and pain relief.
Apart from the legal difficulties involved, I simply cannot understand why someone who is dying anyway should be forced to spend their last days in a situation which is the antithesis of how they have conducted their entire life.
And, speaking for myself, it's not about the fear of dying. It's much more about loss of independence and control, of having other people make decisions for me. Why should they?
Julia
You are in a position to observe humanity at its best and worst. Yes, we will all admire those who suffer pain and indignity stoically, but when we are dying to do should be our choice.
Some of us will accept such a situation without question, possibly based on their religious beliefs. Others will accept such a situation also without question, simply because they have gone through their entire lives in a passive fashion, not seeking to change what happens to them.
But others of us find the concept of loss of dignity, loss of choices completely unacceptable. I am one of these people and am with Prospector here.
It has nothing to do with pain and pain relief.
Apart from the legal difficulties involved, I simply cannot understand why someone who is dying anyway should be forced to spend their last days in a situation which is the antithesis of how they have conducted their entire life.
And, speaking for myself, it's not about the fear of dying. It's much more about loss of independence and control, of having other people make decisions for me. Why should they?
Julia