Value Collector
Have courage, and be kind.
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VC, I have been having a think about what is fundamentally different between the people I know, which are quite a lot of people. I am thinking along the lines of character trait differences, between those who have become financially secure and those that haven't.
The one glaring difference is the ability to say no, I guess it is self discipline, those who have made it seem to have more.
Like you say 'live frugally', but really it is the ability to say no, be it to smoking, changing your car, buying the latest phone, going out for food, buying yuppy beer, getting the latest gadget.
It boils down to the persons ability to say no, to him/herself.
Just my ponderings
Totally self discipline is a big part of it, and thats true with any goal you set yourself, whether that be making it to the olympics, climbing Everest, or simply paying off your debt. You have to set the goal, make a plan, and then most importantly have the self discipline every day to carry out the plan over a number of years.
But like any muscle, the more you exercise self discipline the easier it gets.
And if you can get your partner on board and excited about the plan, it will be so much easier, I was lucky my partner got it straight away, and she was 18 at the time and only just starting full time work, so she had never ramped up her consumption, so I don't think she ever felt like she was sacrificing anything, not to mention she didn't drink alcohol or smoke.