Julia
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What you describe reflects what happened to me. I don't know whether I'm the person to whom you're referring, but the post of mine which you deleted was absolutely not reinstated. I did contact Joe over it because it was a carefully thought out, polite response to someone who had been particularly sarcastic to me entirely unnecessarily. That person's post was allowed to stand, with the sarcastic part edited out by CanOz.I confess to misusing the ignore list. A while ago (over a year ago) i placed a member on ignore after i was tired of arguing (read:lost the argument).
Recently i deleted a bunch of off topic stuff out of a particular thread. I deleted more than i should have, a bit hasty in my moderation attempt. That member sent me a PM...which i of course did not receive, because they were still on ignore. I was just a bit lazy taking them off ignore even though i would still read their post and sometimes even respond.
Well after their PMs were unanswered they contacted Joe who promptly asked me to re-instate their posts, which i did.
I hope that member accepts my sincerest apologies....
I confess to misusing the ignore list. A while ago (over a year ago) i placed a member on ignore after i was tired of arguing (read:lost the argument).
Recently i deleted a bunch of off topic stuff out of a particular thread. I deleted more than i should have, a bit hasty in my moderation attempt. That member sent me a PM...which i of course did not receive, because they were still on ignore. I was just a bit lazy taking them off ignore even though i would still read their post and sometimes even respond.
Well after their PMs were unanswered they contacted Joe who promptly asked me to re-instate their posts, which i did.
I hope that member accepts my sincerest apologies....
Hi CanOz,
This post of yours, in conjunction with Whiskers' rant and Julia's reply, simply reconfirms my reasons for resisting all invitations to become a moderator.
One other Forum where I hang out doesn't even have an "Ignore" function, which leads to many a thread being left to one or two serial ranters, who insist on having the last word - even though it's the same nonsense repeated day after day, and never a discussion of a differing view put forward by someone else. Which has the consequence of most "someone elses" contributing less and less or leaving the Forum altogether.
(Doesn't apply to you, Julia, but Whiskers is on my Ignore list as of today.)
Hi CanOz,
This post of yours, in conjunction with Whiskers' rant and Julia's reply, simply reconfirms my reasons for resisting all invitations to become a moderator.
One other Forum where I hang out doesn't even have an "Ignore" function, which leads to many a thread being left to one or two serial ranters, who insist on having the last word - even though it's the same nonsense repeated day after day, and never a discussion of a differing view put forward by someone else. Which has the consequence of most "someone elses" contributing less and less or leaving the Forum altogether.
(Doesn't apply to you, Julia, but Whiskers is on my Ignore list as of today.)
I confess to misusing the ignore list. A while ago (over a year ago) i placed a member on ignore after i was tired of arguing (read:lost the argument).
Recently i deleted a bunch of off topic stuff out of a particular thread. I deleted more than i should have, a bit hasty in my moderation attempt. That member sent me a PM...which i of course did not receive, because they were still on ignore. I was just a bit lazy taking them off ignore even though i would still read their post and sometimes even respond.
Well after their PMs were unanswered they contacted Joe who promptly asked me to re-instate their posts, which i did.
I hope that member accepts my sincerest apologies....
The only reason i Mod for ASF is that its a way for me to give back to ASF and Joe. 99% of the members here are good people, with others best interest at heart.
At the end of the day, its the ones with egos that ruin the place and keep moderators busy.
Nothing personal Canoz but if I was the person who's post had been unfairly removed I would be offended by this vague apology. Having admitted the error, all this time after the event, it would convey more sincerity if you addressed it to the member concerned. I beleive that your doing so publicly would add more credibility to the sincerity of your apology.
I apologized to Julia in PM.
Apparently there is still a post that i need to re-instate though, so when get a few minutes i must try and have a look for that...
The only reason i Mod for ASF is that its a way for me to give back to ASF and Joe. 99% of the members here are good people, with others best interest at heart.
At the end of the day, its the ones with egos that ruin the place and keep moderators busy.
... Yes, I do strive to "give back"
FWIW, I can't see how any moderator can fairly adjudicate on a thread when he is not seeing all the relevant posts. If you have someone on Ignore because you feel you have 'lost an argument', then arbitrarily delete a post from that person, removing his/her right of reply to an offensive comment from another poster, which you subsequently carefully edited out, leaving the majority of the post intact, then that's imo just unfair and that was my objection at the time.I confess to misusing the ignore list. A while ago (over a year ago) i placed a member on ignore after i was tired of arguing (read:lost the argument).
If you had, then there would have been no issue. I reported to Joe that my whole post had been removed, there was no mention of it being reinstated by anyone, I also sent a screenshot from my PM Sent box showing the PMs, and still heard nothing from you.Well after their PMs were unanswered they contacted Joe who promptly asked me to re-instate their posts, which i did.
No need to bother. The subject has long passed and it's now irrelevant.Apparently there is still a post that i need to re-instate though, so when get a few minutes i must try and have a look for that...
FWIW, I can't see how any moderator can fairly adjudicate on a thread when he is not seeing all the relevant posts. If you have someone on Ignore because you feel you have 'lost an argument', then arbitrarily delete a post from that person, removing his/her right of reply to an offensive comment from another poster, which you subsequently carefully edited out, leaving the majority of the post intact, then that's imo just unfair and that was my objection at the time.
If you had, then there would have been no issue. I reported to Joe that my whole post had been removed, there was no mention of it being reinstated by anyone, I also sent a screenshot from my PM Sent box showing the PMs, and still heard nothing from you.
No need to bother. The subject has long passed and it's now irrelevant.
And there we go, back on ignore.....
Why did I Farking bother....
Yes even though its tough I think Joe should have a rule that moderators can't use ignore
Before you get stuck into CanOz, consider the circumstances, how hard it can be to be forced to take the opponent's side when when you are the other. And if you believe you can do a better job, send a PM to Joe and volunteer. I know I couldn't, so won't.
If it wasn't for n-n and waza's critical remarks,
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