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Anyhow she told me this is what she wants: I want "DO NOT RESUSCITATE" if there is no hope and If I am brain dead "PULL THE PLUG", there is no point in prolonging life. She said, note: "Under no circumstances sell the family home until I am gone."
My job is to carry out her wishes. The Lawyer said, "I am your witness and your Mother is of full mental capacity". "When the time comes Bill it will be your duty to carry out her wishes", "you have Power of Attorney." I was a bit overwhelmed at the time.
I have every intention of carrying out my Mothers wishes, why? because she told me to, it is my duty. No rat arsed politician or relgious nut is going to tell me what is right or wrong, it is written in law by my Mother.
I am fairly sure that allowing your mother to die when she is only supported by artificial means is perfectly legal. There was a high profile death recently where the news said that life support was removed from the person, which then allowed the person to die, because that was the wishes of the person in his will. I can't recall who it was, but I am pretty sure it was in Australia.
Where the law intervenes is when a doctor/nurse/relative/carer actively does something to cause death, even if that is the wish of the person. I believe that too should be legal if the person gave consent to euthanasia when in sound mind, just as your mother did in regards to not being resuscitated.
That being said, I know quite a few nurses who tell me it is not uncommon for them to "encourage" death when the know that is the wish of the patient and the patient is in severe pain.