Chrisgee
Im wondering how old you are? If you are not near retirement age the good thing is that you still have time on your side to rebuild as Trevor said.
I dont mind sharing with you that I have been ripped off many times in my life,
always too trusting and naive to think that people DIDNT have my best interests at heart - especially when I was paying them. Duh.
Although I never lost my house or owed the bank a lot of money via a margin loan, being scammed/ripped off is a horrible feeling.
I kept asking myself why me?
Eventually I realised that not only was I too trusting and gullible but basically I was also lazy. Never could be bothered wading my way through product disclosure statements or "terms and conditions", I even had trouble reading operating manuals for various equipment.
I am an excellent reader but just found all the financial/technical lingo boring.
I was basically ignorant about financial matters as well, I remember getting sucked into an AMP fund years ago when I was young, I couldnt wait to get out of the advisor's office and go to the pub, it was soooooo boring the way he was going on and on about stuff I didnt understand.
Years later I worked out that if I had put my money in a shoebox under my bed I would have had more in the box than in the AMP fund, my money was eroded by all the fees. If I had bothered to learn about the "product" I wouldnt have touched it with a barge pole.
Another sucker story for you Chrisgee; when I first started in my business I got scammed for a couple of thousand dollars - by fake invoicing and fake threatening legal action letters. Again, I didnt do my homework - stupid me just paid up after they started phoning me 5 times a day threatening me.
Sure, I was under duress and actually quite scared of these people but it was me who was dumb by paying. I should have looked at the government scamwatch site FIRST.
I am sorry you are in financial trouble by having faith in a CONMAN. Please ask yourself what your part in it was so that you learn your lesson well.
Were you naive, gullible, greedy, too trusting, ignorant etc etc.....
Im not having a go at you, just trying to let you know you arent the first to be conned and certainly wont be the last. All you can do is savvy up and get smarter, educate yourself so that you wont fall prey to the next spruiker.
In my opinion, it would be unwise for you to focus on the "justice" side of things by going with the herd with Slater & Gordon and expecting a miracle. Do some research on them and the way they operate before you give them any of your money.
I highly doubt that the banks involved will be found to have done anything that is illegal, maybe unethical but not illegal. If I am right you wont be seeing the money you lost returned to you by the banks.
It is a bitter pill to swallow, being conned, and of course it will take time for you to move on, just make sure you move in the right direction - towards educating yourself so that you have the freedom to make your own decisions and not follow the latest financial guru.
Good luck Chrisgee.
Im wondering how old you are? If you are not near retirement age the good thing is that you still have time on your side to rebuild as Trevor said.
I dont mind sharing with you that I have been ripped off many times in my life,
always too trusting and naive to think that people DIDNT have my best interests at heart - especially when I was paying them. Duh.
Although I never lost my house or owed the bank a lot of money via a margin loan, being scammed/ripped off is a horrible feeling.
I kept asking myself why me?
Eventually I realised that not only was I too trusting and gullible but basically I was also lazy. Never could be bothered wading my way through product disclosure statements or "terms and conditions", I even had trouble reading operating manuals for various equipment.
I am an excellent reader but just found all the financial/technical lingo boring.
I was basically ignorant about financial matters as well, I remember getting sucked into an AMP fund years ago when I was young, I couldnt wait to get out of the advisor's office and go to the pub, it was soooooo boring the way he was going on and on about stuff I didnt understand.
Years later I worked out that if I had put my money in a shoebox under my bed I would have had more in the box than in the AMP fund, my money was eroded by all the fees. If I had bothered to learn about the "product" I wouldnt have touched it with a barge pole.
Another sucker story for you Chrisgee; when I first started in my business I got scammed for a couple of thousand dollars - by fake invoicing and fake threatening legal action letters. Again, I didnt do my homework - stupid me just paid up after they started phoning me 5 times a day threatening me.
Sure, I was under duress and actually quite scared of these people but it was me who was dumb by paying. I should have looked at the government scamwatch site FIRST.
I am sorry you are in financial trouble by having faith in a CONMAN. Please ask yourself what your part in it was so that you learn your lesson well.
Were you naive, gullible, greedy, too trusting, ignorant etc etc.....
Im not having a go at you, just trying to let you know you arent the first to be conned and certainly wont be the last. All you can do is savvy up and get smarter, educate yourself so that you wont fall prey to the next spruiker.
In my opinion, it would be unwise for you to focus on the "justice" side of things by going with the herd with Slater & Gordon and expecting a miracle. Do some research on them and the way they operate before you give them any of your money.
I highly doubt that the banks involved will be found to have done anything that is illegal, maybe unethical but not illegal. If I am right you wont be seeing the money you lost returned to you by the banks.
It is a bitter pill to swallow, being conned, and of course it will take time for you to move on, just make sure you move in the right direction - towards educating yourself so that you have the freedom to make your own decisions and not follow the latest financial guru.
Good luck Chrisgee.