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Neither of us is a radical of extraordinary intelligence – we’re just level-headed, sensible people who think things through and make up our own minds, rather than believing something because it was taught to us and is the accepted majority view.
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It would be implausible for even an imbecile to think the whole thing is 100% God's own digest.
"As Jaws, I start off as a bad guy and turn into a good guy whereas in this I appear to be a good guy and turn into a really nasty guy."
In 1992 Kiel suffered a serious head injury in a car accident which left him needing to walk with a cane.
The actor was a born-again Christian, who credited his conversion with saving him from alcoholism.
In later years he co-wrote a novel, Kentucky Lion, about the slave abolitionist Cassius Marcellus Clay.
http://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-09-11/richard-kiel-bond-villain-jaws-dies/5736400
Who says religion is all bad ?
Religions are primarily made up of people.
Duckman, I do think your above post is disingenous. If we accept that the abuse occurred via a relatively small number of individuals, there is now no question that it was systematically covered up over a very long period of time by the Catholic Church as an institution.Not one of your sharpest openings Bunyip, but in your own special way you have opened the door to my argument.
I can separate the Catholic Church from individual people. I don't believe you can. I am not saying that the abuse that happened was right - it was appalling, but these are rogue individuals who make up a small percentage of the Priests, Sisters and Brothers serving in the Church. The Catholic Church is no more condoning the actions of these people than the Australian Defence Force who paid off and intimidated young cadets who complain of sexual abuse by higher ranking officers.
It amazes me to think that non-Catholics can have more behavioural expectations of Priests than Catholics actually do!!!
Duckman
Duckman, I do think your above post is disingenous. If we accept that the abuse occurred via a relatively small number of individuals, there is now no question that it was systematically covered up over a very long period of time by the Catholic Church as an institution.
Duckman I am reacting to what you have written.
Clergy are abusing children. Children that are completely powerless to defend themselves.
They are being abused by figures that are held up to be mentors and spiritual gaurdians, figures that ask us to see them as the pariahs of the community, trustworthy and beyond reproach. Parents handover the care and education to them, or the care and guidance is or was provided in institutions where the parents are off the scene - the latter children even more vulnerable. This complete and appalling betrayal of trust causes lifelong and life shortening psychological damage
Your statement above would be just as relevant if you replaced the word clergy with scout leader, school teacher, father, mother, swim coach.
I don't disagree with these comments Lindsay, except I don't believe the clergy would like to think of themselves as pariahs.Lovely Freudian slip). I am not arguing with you regarding the complete betrayal of trust. However I do have a problem with the way you seem to apportion a much greater degree of severity and mental torture on abuse by the clergy. Your statement above would be just as relevant if you replaced the word clergy with scout leader, school teacher, father, mother, swim coach. As parents we place trust and reliance on large numbers of people in the community to do the right thing - call me naïve but I don't expect ANYONE in the community to indecently deal with my children.
You tell me who in the eyes of a 7 year child has created the greater betrayal - the mother who turns her blind eye to a partner sexually molesting her daughter or the local priest.
Look we all have our opinions - some on this forum such as Julia and Bunyip see things in black and white, right or wrong, wet and dry. I don't see it that way. I am not supporting the Church in the stance it has taken over the years and agree with many of the deserved criticisms that Julia and Bunyip have expressed.
Duckman
I probably don't need to say that I'm 100% with the remarks of lindsayf and Sir O.
To compare the relative lack of power on the part of a junior ADULT in Defence, an organisation known for toughness, with a little kid of as young as five or six in many cases, in the institutions charged with protecting them in every way is an utter distortion of the awful impact of the pain, confusion and terror experienced by so many victims of the churches.
The comparison is about as appropriate as Cardinal Pell's suggestion that the situation in the church was no different from a trucking company being held responsible if one of their drivers should happen to molest a young woman.
And yes, Duckman, I sure as hell do see the situation in black and white. Shades of grey throughout much of life but imo not a single one when it comes to the physical, moral, emotional and sexual assault of a defenceless child.
Where are the parents in all of this? My mother would never have left me alone with any male adult, let alone a priest..... the rumours were strong then as they are now and probably for centuries prior.
I can't imagine the dilemma of a child being told by his parents to behave for the priest and that priest firstly describing and then perpetrating that behavioural filth. To me it's a betrayal from all the adult guardians.
Rumpole has correctly pointed out that much of the worst abuse occurred in orphanages. This, of course, made it all the more heinous: these little kids had absolutely no one to care about them, or to advocate on their behalf.Where are the parents in all of this? My mother would never have left me alone with any male adult, let alone a priest..... the rumours were strong then as they are now and probably for centuries prior.
I can't imagine the dilemma of a child being told by his parents to behave for the priest and that priest firstly describing and then perpetrating that behavioural filth. To me it's a betrayal from all the adult guardians.
Another part ( and I know this is controversial to some) is the stupid culture of sexual repression such as in the catholic clerical system. There is little hope that an individual will develop healthily emotionally, psychologically or sexually as a cleric within this system. I have no evidence to suggest causation here (and there are no doubt other factors at play) but I suggest there is a correlation between the incidence of child abuse and the culture of sexual repression that young clerics must exist in with unlimited access to, and power over, the flock.
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