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Sorry to hear of the loss of Scotch Matty. He looked like he was a great cat (we had a white cat like that once with the very unimaginative name of Snowy).
I think that's true. Up until that point we have been able to do everything to look after them and we inevitably feel like we've let them down when the end comes. As I get older though I find I am coming to terms a lot better with death being a part of life and I think the loss of various pets over the years has helped me to learn that lesson.
I think perhaps the other factor in why we feel such loss when our pets die is that they have for all their lives been completely dependent on us. It's totally illogical, but there's possibly some part of us which feels that we've failed them when they die.
I don't know. I do know the loss of my dogs has always affected me far more than the deaths of any of the human beings I've been close to.
I think that's true. Up until that point we have been able to do everything to look after them and we inevitably feel like we've let them down when the end comes. As I get older though I find I am coming to terms a lot better with death being a part of life and I think the loss of various pets over the years has helped me to learn that lesson.