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Thanks for the links Solly, I'll read them shortly, and hope that other stormies also read the information.
No Doobsy I can't give you one example because I know that unfortunately you're right, but that doesn't necessarily make it right, or mean that any of us shouldn't consider any proposal which may improve the situation. I know we're all human and we have a rotten side, some of the rotten sides though have little on the other side.
Bunyip we all know now that you're right re storm. We're all much wiser after the event, doesn't make it any easier to accept that it's right though, and I''m bloodyminded enough to continue to push for change, if that's possible, and I'd like to see everyone seeking advice to read a thread like this so that prospective finance seekers have a more balanced view and more information on making that all important decision, and how bad it can be if you get it wrong.
What hasn't escaped me though is the number of investors who don't use advisors, there's a good reason for that I suspect. I know there are good advisors out there, I'm prepared though to take the advice of others and 'do it for myself'. I don't speak for other stormies or group/s, however the few that I do have regular contact with, feel as I do, don't trust again.
Agree totally with your second paragraph Bunyip, however once again it doesn't necessarily make it right either. As I see it we have two main options, accept the situation or push for hopefully a more positive change.
Yes agree Julia well said, I do realise what some of my problems are so will make a note of what you've said and try and take them on board. This may also be true for some other stormies, as I said yesterday, it's not easy being a storm survivor and it's taken quite a toll and taking a long time to get back to any form of a normal existence.
We've all suffered dreadfully, and I don't like 'comparing our anguish' with other disasters in life, it just feels too hard at present, that's not to say that I, and other stormies I presume, don't think about the awful things that happen to others and feel for them. As another stormie said to me in a recent PM 'we have to remember that we've only lost money'. Initially that was true however after three years of stress many of us have lost far far more than 'just money'.
It's not all bad though, three years ago we were all in absolute shock and in a black hole/tunnel, today we can see a light at the end of the tunnel and most of us are determined to enjoy the simple things in life. The stormies that I've meet are the nicest people you could ever hope to meet and we all support each other as best we can. Personally I now have more good days than bad because I can 'talk' about it and am determined to 'get over it as best as I can'
No Doobsy I can't give you one example because I know that unfortunately you're right, but that doesn't necessarily make it right, or mean that any of us shouldn't consider any proposal which may improve the situation. I know we're all human and we have a rotten side, some of the rotten sides though have little on the other side.
Bunyip we all know now that you're right re storm. We're all much wiser after the event, doesn't make it any easier to accept that it's right though, and I''m bloodyminded enough to continue to push for change, if that's possible, and I'd like to see everyone seeking advice to read a thread like this so that prospective finance seekers have a more balanced view and more information on making that all important decision, and how bad it can be if you get it wrong.
What hasn't escaped me though is the number of investors who don't use advisors, there's a good reason for that I suspect. I know there are good advisors out there, I'm prepared though to take the advice of others and 'do it for myself'. I don't speak for other stormies or group/s, however the few that I do have regular contact with, feel as I do, don't trust again.
Agree totally with your second paragraph Bunyip, however once again it doesn't necessarily make it right either. As I see it we have two main options, accept the situation or push for hopefully a more positive change.
Yes agree Julia well said, I do realise what some of my problems are so will make a note of what you've said and try and take them on board. This may also be true for some other stormies, as I said yesterday, it's not easy being a storm survivor and it's taken quite a toll and taking a long time to get back to any form of a normal existence.
We've all suffered dreadfully, and I don't like 'comparing our anguish' with other disasters in life, it just feels too hard at present, that's not to say that I, and other stormies I presume, don't think about the awful things that happen to others and feel for them. As another stormie said to me in a recent PM 'we have to remember that we've only lost money'. Initially that was true however after three years of stress many of us have lost far far more than 'just money'.
It's not all bad though, three years ago we were all in absolute shock and in a black hole/tunnel, today we can see a light at the end of the tunnel and most of us are determined to enjoy the simple things in life. The stormies that I've meet are the nicest people you could ever hope to meet and we all support each other as best we can. Personally I now have more good days than bad because I can 'talk' about it and am determined to 'get over it as best as I can'