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Where did I say I considered my partner to be property of her father? Her father skipped out on her (and her family) when she was a child. She would be lucky to see him once a year these days... So I will not be asking her father. I will be asking her mother. And I will be not asking "permission", I will simply ask if I have her blessing.
I know my partner's mother well and I know what the answer will be. It shows respect, and I know both my partner and her mother will appreciate it. But I understand this situation may not suit other peoples circumstances.
So maybe it is you who needs "to think before you speak"...
I concur Gav. You know in your own mind what is right for the situation. You have got it sussed and the situation is in control from YOU. I know you will do the right thing. Go brother !