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Blame is something we are all doing to ourselves more than any of you realise. We blame ourselves for trusting, for not looking into this strategy and understanding it more, for agreeing to let them monitor our investment instead of doing it ourselves, for not demanding to be cashed up when they said not to follow the herd, you name it we blame ourselves for it, but at the end of the day we should be able to trust a licensed financial planner and the banks.
For any Storm victims out there that do blame themselves - please don't forget to forgive yourselves as well - and if you feel others have let you down - try to forgive them as well - especially close friends and loved ones. Accepting responsibility for ones part in an event or circumstance, and forgiving oneself or receiving forgiveness from others can be a very powerful step in moving on emotionally from a traumatic experience.