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What makes somebody "attractive"?


Yeah agreed, they need to be hot, smoking hot, damn hot, and smart/have a great personality.
Too often people try and kid themselves that personality is king, not too sure why, maybe they think they're ugly and can't judge? no idea, it doesn't make sense. perhaps people putting all their faith in personality is why relationships deteriorate and peeps become unfaithful? maybe not.
Its an interesting and bizarre characteristic of us Aussies.
 
No matter how good looking someone is, i think their personailty needs to be better than their looks. With hot girls the bar is set pretty high, so i often feel let down...
 
I'm going to reply based on the materials I have..."followed" several years ago. (before I am in a relationship that is!)

Here is a list of personality traits that are considered "attractive" to all women regardless of backgrounds and looks. Of course, each women IS different and would be more attracted to a combination of traits over others.


From David Angelo materials, DoubleDating.com

Remember attraction IS NOT a choice. Most women would NOT admit they are attracted to certain traits they would previously consider to be NON-marriage material. But they are attracted to them unconsiciously anyway. It's built into their genes. And attraction is not logical as well.
 
My belief is Attraction isn't a Choice... You may have preferences such as big boobies and coke bottle figure but if she was drop kick and a COW (Center of the World) I'd be over her in a flash... Do not confuse preferences for attractiveness.... That's what everyone does...

"If a girl isn't attracted to you then there is nothing you can do but if she is attracted to you then there is nothing she can do" David DeAngelo

That is so true...

For guys we need to be Fun, Adventurous, Highly Social and dress well... And very Importantly be Ambitious... You don't need money but it certainly can help...

You know what this applies to girls too... Enough said before I write a book on this topic...
 

Inned to work the Dominant one just because I'm not around any one social group long enough to exert it... His material is the bomb
 
Hot first, have to be physically attracted to them.

Caring and nurturing.

Likes sports.

Has her own interests other than the next issue of Cosmepolitan (spelling)! Had my fair share of them and was bored out of my brain quick.

Confidence helps too, but not the kind where she thinks she's hot and chews her gum with an open mouth! Hate those ones.
 
Symmetry is what makes a person 'physically' attactive.

But i've found that personality can really turn me on more than anything. You know those really cheerful girls who are always bright and cheerful. I like those chicks the most.
 
It certainly isn't spending 23hrs straight on a uni assignment wearing track pants, ugg boots and a melbourne demons scarf with no showering, no hint of a toothbrush and about 5 cans of red bull....

The ladies have been giving me a WIDE berth....

~Kieran

EDIT: I am in the uni computer labs, not at home BTW...
 
Sorry Gav, not what you asked for but Simon Baker (The Mentalist) has just been voted sexist man on TV in the USA. Seems just like an ordinary bloke to me.
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Aussie hunk Simon Baker has ended Patrick Dempsey's two-year reign as the sexiest man on television.

FULL STORY HERE
 
Looks matter in the short term but you pretty much forget about that in the long term where personality becomes far more important.
 
Pheromones have something to do with it too, If you smell like her father you're in.
Not sure what thats supposed to mean but perhaps it's a Tasmanian or Texan thing.
 

It still fits in the topic. The world must love Aussie guys, wasn't Hugh Jackman voted the world's sexiest man recently?
 
It is , I've copied it into a word doc, just in case

Haha, well I thought it was interesting - even though I don't agree with it.

Make sure you get Smithers to read it to you daily... :
 
Haha, well I thought it was interesting - even though I don't agree with it.

Make sure you get Smithers to read it to you daily... :

Whats not to agree with ?

It seems to have everything that I've always thought but never actally thought deeply about, that list seems to detail it all.

Smithers is off to some mardi gras or something, having a gay old time no doubt.
 
Yeah I like a well shaped female body with a philosophical leaning and a love of nature.

p.s. How much? :
 
Symmetry is what makes a person 'physically' attactive.

Have to say, that is the biggest BS myth I have ever seen.

I've read studies of this, where they disprooved it.

It showed numerous photos of a copy of somebodies right side, and then perfect symmetry generated on the left side of the face and vice-versa.

And other complete and utter natural photos of them, where naturally, they were not symmetrical at all, many of the times, they were far more attractive and the vast majority of those surveyed thought the same.

If you have a big nose, a tiny chin, puffy cheecks, and a receeding hairline as a man, symmetry of both sides is not going to make it look any better
 
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