Julia
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Dink,
Great post. Thank you.
However, not all situations work out as easily as you suggest. My late grandmother had a very healthy cardiovascular system, no cancer or other disease, but was completely incapacitated by a form of arthritis which meant she was in pain all the time, couldn't wash or feed herself, or get to the toilet.
Her doctor told her she could live for many more years like this. What pleasure did she have in life? All our reassurances that she wasn't a burden were completely irrelevant. She was in her late 80's and simply had had enough. What would you suggest as a solution for her?
NB She eventually managed to crawl outside to where a discarded old laundry tub had filled with rainwater and drowned herself. I found her some hours later with the flies crawling all over her.
Julia
Great post. Thank you.
However, not all situations work out as easily as you suggest. My late grandmother had a very healthy cardiovascular system, no cancer or other disease, but was completely incapacitated by a form of arthritis which meant she was in pain all the time, couldn't wash or feed herself, or get to the toilet.
Her doctor told her she could live for many more years like this. What pleasure did she have in life? All our reassurances that she wasn't a burden were completely irrelevant. She was in her late 80's and simply had had enough. What would you suggest as a solution for her?
NB She eventually managed to crawl outside to where a discarded old laundry tub had filled with rainwater and drowned herself. I found her some hours later with the flies crawling all over her.
Julia