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What advice would you give my friend? He thinks he's entitled to kill himself if he loses what little money he has left in the bank. He feels that it is his right to do so. (have already advised seeing a physiologist, helplines etc)Man dies after intentionally flying plane into his own home – that had wife, son inside, police say
https://www.yahoo.com/news/m/d4156c...e66a7bae/ss_man-dies-after-intentionally.html
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What gives you the right to tell me when I should have the option to live or die?I was glad to see euthanasia was voted down.
Are you certain that Tink was actually claiming that right?What gives you the right to tell me when I should have the option to live or die?
I think I used poor words. I should probably clarify that my friend wasn't thinking at all about legal rights as in this kind of discussion, but rather something like
“ you gotta man [end your life] cause it's so bad [if I would lose this money from catastrophic causes]” (such is his outlook)
Furthermore , he can't stop worrying about the money he lost, from previously squandering it over everything he wanted. My perception is that this is hurting him deeply and continuously .
Looks like you've been through some stuff...I doubt his money problem was as deep as mine but unless a person can take a lofty point of view it is easy to be completely consumed by it. Some can go under being only a few thousand dollars in debt, before he does that, mine was seven figures and counting - if his debt or losses are over $3 million then that's difficult I know but not enough to jump off a certain popular rock as I once thought.
Basically I was busted by the 1987 stock market crash and debts and liabilities plus tax and everything else wiped me out. Only way out was to jet out of Australia. As mentioned before I was lucky in 1994 as I bought heavily into Endeavour Resources Limited ( St Barbara Mines ) by walking into a bank and investing every few weeks - as it was done in those days with no checks as long as money was put into an account and few questions asked. The shares headed off from 2c to nearly $3.00 so from heavy debts to paying everything off.
After all that I'm not bothered much by all the things that appeared important and trying to consume me. Take that lofty point of view and matters seem smaller and that means move away how ever far and just for a period of time, about 7 years in my case, climb back and forget them all and everything.
A song followed by a better one and more:
Looks like you've been through some stuff...
As you say a lofty point of view to have. I'm glad you think like that, as I wasn't sure. My friend Gavin doesn't have a debt but his past (squandering money , has very little) is bothering him excessively, endlessly.
Some considerations for Gav:
He still has food and water, and income coming in. Not all in the world have that.
He could aspire to work hard and save (and maintain life balance), and learn from his mistakes.
Many of us will experience some kind of setback/regret in the course of a lifetime, either through bad decision making, or being unlucky. Not just him. We have to go on.
He should forget the past.
Since he is obsessed with becoming rich, some additional money reflections might be of use (he throws away lots of his money on lottery tickets):
A Ferrari is nice to have, but you get used to it after a while.
You don't need wealth to go on holidays once a year.
The thing is, he can't seem to adopt these positive belief systems, or want to adopt them. He is extremely unhappy, tortured endlessly by the past.
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