explod
explod
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Those who were caught up in this dreadful business need to mull it over and let off steam.
I lost a fortune some nine years ago now to a dreadful property investment and I am still angry and trying to reconcile the rotten side of society.
So patience and latitude ought to be a regulation in this particular thread and those who have not made mistakes and are pure are best to bypass.
And I also, from a number of experiences, not just my own, realise that the boss may have a few hands.
Great post explod, I too, furiously agree.
I'm very interested in this whole Storm saga, and keen to learn about any outcomes still to be determined. Personally I believe all involved parties deserve a portion of blame for what has occurred. I sincerely hope the banks absorb a decent whack of the losses, as they have the resources to do so, and at the end of the day engaged in some unethical lending practises.
It's unfortunate that this thread has been going round in circles for a while now, because this is an intriguing story which has yet to be resolved.
For the victims of Storm, I hope you can eventually move on from all of this. You cannot change what has happened, but you can take lessons from it and determine your future. In the meantime continue your battle against the banks and achieve the best possible outcome there.
The moving on aspect is very worthy of discussion imo. I think it might be easier for some than others, obviously depending on the degree of financial devastation experienced, but also I think on personality type, support from family and friends, age and experience. Accepting that you can't change what has happened and not only your financial wellbeing but also your hopes and aspirations for the future, your way of life and sometimes your standing in your family/community has changed irrevocably is something that takes time to get your head around.
Much wisdom here. And, as you have pointed out, age makes a difference. Your being able to work for some while before retirement must help in the recovery process.Personally, after a period of bitter self-recrimination and mourning for the loss of my money, self-esteem and plans for the future, I realised that bitterness and depression weren't going to help me in the slightest. Gaining knowledge, confidence, and formulating a plan to try to recover some of what has been lost is far more productive than looking back at what might have been, for me.
Great post explod, I too, furiously agree.
I'm very interested in this whole Storm saga, and keen to learn about any outcomes still to be determined. Personally I believe all involved parties deserve a portion of blame for what has occurred. I sincerely hope the banks absorb a decent whack of the losses, as they have the resources to do so, and at the end of the day engaged in some unethical lending practises.
It's unfortunate that this thread has been going round in circles for a while now, because this is an intriguing story which has yet to be resolved.
For the victims of Storm, I hope you can eventually move on from all of this. You cannot change what has happened, but you can take lessons from it and determine your future. In the meantime continue your battle against the banks and achieve the best possible outcome there.
Well said Frank.
At the end of the day, we, the people that have suffered in this financial disaster are not seeking anyone's approval for what we have done in the past, but rather their understanding of what happened to us. No one is immune from those in our society that set out to deceive. No institution in our society is above the law and we, the people, should never allow them to be.
I totally agree.
Frank, when you put up a sincere and thoughtful post like that, my reaction is respect and sympathy.
Although some of us have emphasised the need for taking personal responsibility in all investment decisions, I do understand that the financial world can appear immensely complex and therefore the willingness to trust someone you expect to be giving you advice which is genuinely in your best interests is probably understandable.
I think some of the bad feeling on this thread has been for the usual reason on forums, i.e. heated feelings provoke personal attacks instead of sticking with the impersonal financial issues.
No one likes being insulted.
I don't underestimate how difficult it is to admit on a public forum that you could have managed a situation better. It takes insight and courage.
Please accept my appreciation and best wishes.
I totally agree.
Frank, when you put up a sincere and thoughtful post like that, my reaction is respect and sympathy.
I don't underestimate how difficult it is to admit on a public forum that you could have managed a situation better. It takes insight and courage.
Please accept my appreciation and best wishes.
Hi Julia,
Your posting is spot on!
As Dock has quite rightly said, “For most of us life goes on - focussing on determining our futures is far more important imo than dwelling on what we shoulda/coulda done”. What’s done is done and we cannot undo it! Rather, we should now be looking to give it everything we have. If we fail, then so be it, but we will do so knowing that we could have done no more. We will fail while daring greatly. What more can any of us ask of ourselves than that?
I thank you for your considered posting and your understanding. Let’s hope we can now all move forward and use this forum in a productive way so that those follow can benefit from our experiences and avoid the pitfalls that still exist within the financial sector.
Hi Junior,
There are many like you that are interested in this whole Storm saga and want to get to the bottom of what really occurred! .........
Frank, without a doubt that is the best post you have made on this forum (the quoter would not enable me to post the whole post).
As i have said to you before, I sincerely hope you get justice for what has happened to you. We have had our disagreements, but that in no way means that I believe people deserved to be screwed by anyone, nor does it mean I want to rub your nose in the dirt. It is a terrible scenario for all involved....one I wouldn't wish on anyone.
Hopefully everyone on here has learned something, no matter how hard it may be to take. I certainly know I have.
Best of luck to all...I sincerely mean that.
And Frank, the Stormers are lucky to have someone as hard working, diligent and single (bloody!) minded in their corner working for them. Whilst we may disagree on different things, I don't think anyone could possibly criticise you for the work you are doing behind the scenes to recover what was taken from you.
Frank, IjustnewitT, as a recent surfer into this thread, I - like Julia - recoiled with horror at the criticism I read from a (presumably) non-Stormer.
I decided to add my voice, not just in sympathy, but in support. The reality is that every lifetime sees a at least a dozen scammers at your door (I'm currently the victim of a builder that went bust in January!), so it's about 50/50 the ratio of falling victim to such people, whatever one's state of naivity, trust etc..
So, I'm practising what I'm preaching about looking forward, with a constructive mindset, slowly leaving the bitterness behind by opening up blue boxes every day, and planning ahead.
But especially for Stormers, it will be a matter of 2 steps forward, 1 step back because of the scale and enormity of the disaster, and its timing relative to the GFC.
And whilst it's hard to put the money issue to one side, it's also the case that the most constructive repair work can be done around the human relationships that were scarred because of this disaster.
It's very very hard to tame and harness that internal spirit of forgiveness (for your loved ones) when the only impulse out of the whole Storm saga is overwhelming bitter recrimination and the need for vengeance.
But therein lies the challenge, so no time to waste! And all the best of luck.
CBA it's been nearly 4 years since you sold my asset without my authority. Now you are hellbent on squeezing my financial capability as you push to end the class action with your endless amounts of money. Well I'm in control this time and will stay in control. I and many others have saved for this rainy day so we will run this case and all the deception before and after the Storm collapse will be revealed.
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