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I read a book once that researched how people behaved when they were lost in the wilderness. When people began to realise they were lost, a common reaction was to increase their pace - i.e. start to walk faster or even run - trying to find a landmark or point of reference that would help them realign themselves to the position they thought they were on on their map. This frantic running around trying to figure out where they were tended to burn valuable energy and make them even more lost.
The survivors tended to exhibit one particular trait - that was that instead of wasting energy trying to figure out where they were, they accepted that they were lost and began to re-map their surroundings based on their local frames of reference, and started to adapt to and 'live' in their new surroundings - finding things to keep them warm, building shelter, locating water, food etc.
The ones that didn't, kept racing around, burning more energy, trying to figure out how to 'get back' to where they were - many perishing in environments where there was ample food and water available.
This might seem like a lot of waffle - but one of the most difficult things for the victims of Storm to accept, particularly those in the later stages of life, will be to accept that life has changed and they will not 'get back' financially to where they were. They need to accept this change and rebuild themselves within their new financial circumstance.
I personally would be backing what Garpal Gumnut has been saying - accept that the money is gone - the legal actions against Storm, the administrators, the banks and even the professional indemnity insurance companies are highly unlikely in my view to reap much of anything. Heading down this path is quite likely wasting time that could be spent moving on with your new position. (but don't take my word for it, seek advice).
The practical suggestion, as Sir O has described, is to make a budget.
Figure out what your incomes and outgoings are - figure out if you are cashflow positive. Figure out the 'fire sale' value of your assets. You will likely be facing one of three scenario's:
(i)If you are cashflow positive, then start planning your new life - are you barely surviving to pay off what is now a large mortgage on a house that is bigger than you need when you could be living in a smaller place and having a better lifestyle? Are there things that could be sold that aren't really used that could be used to pay down some debt which would reduce your outgoings and improve your lifestyle? etc. etc.
(ii)If you are not cashflow positive, then is it possible to sell down assets in such a way that you can be cashflow positive? If so then similar to above - work out what needs to be sold. If trying to adjust cashflow/debt in order to 'save the house' first consider as well whether the house is 'worth' saving or whether its possible to have an enjoyable lifestyle in cheaper accomodation (e.g. sell house, buy an apartment, sell house, buy a townhouse, shift from an expensive suburb to a less expensive one etc.).
(iii)If your are not cashflow positive, and selling down your assets is not likely to bring you into a situation where you can be cashflow positive then you are possibly headed for bankruptcy. This is of course an extremely difficult thing to face - but if it is your new financial reality, then the sooner that it is faced, the sooner you will be on the other side of it - so start investigating the bankruptcy process.
And it might seem ironic - but seeking advice from an experienced financial planner - that doesn't work off commissions and doesn't push their own specialty products - and ideally one that helps people that are facing possible bankruptcy - is probably a very good idea. Its even possible that free financial planning and legal advice for people in financial hardship is available via government support services or via charity services.
The survivors tended to exhibit one particular trait - that was that instead of wasting energy trying to figure out where they were, they accepted that they were lost and began to re-map their surroundings based on their local frames of reference, and started to adapt to and 'live' in their new surroundings - finding things to keep them warm, building shelter, locating water, food etc.
The ones that didn't, kept racing around, burning more energy, trying to figure out how to 'get back' to where they were - many perishing in environments where there was ample food and water available.
This might seem like a lot of waffle - but one of the most difficult things for the victims of Storm to accept, particularly those in the later stages of life, will be to accept that life has changed and they will not 'get back' financially to where they were. They need to accept this change and rebuild themselves within their new financial circumstance.
I personally would be backing what Garpal Gumnut has been saying - accept that the money is gone - the legal actions against Storm, the administrators, the banks and even the professional indemnity insurance companies are highly unlikely in my view to reap much of anything. Heading down this path is quite likely wasting time that could be spent moving on with your new position. (but don't take my word for it, seek advice).
The practical suggestion, as Sir O has described, is to make a budget.
Figure out what your incomes and outgoings are - figure out if you are cashflow positive. Figure out the 'fire sale' value of your assets. You will likely be facing one of three scenario's:
(i)If you are cashflow positive, then start planning your new life - are you barely surviving to pay off what is now a large mortgage on a house that is bigger than you need when you could be living in a smaller place and having a better lifestyle? Are there things that could be sold that aren't really used that could be used to pay down some debt which would reduce your outgoings and improve your lifestyle? etc. etc.
(ii)If you are not cashflow positive, then is it possible to sell down assets in such a way that you can be cashflow positive? If so then similar to above - work out what needs to be sold. If trying to adjust cashflow/debt in order to 'save the house' first consider as well whether the house is 'worth' saving or whether its possible to have an enjoyable lifestyle in cheaper accomodation (e.g. sell house, buy an apartment, sell house, buy a townhouse, shift from an expensive suburb to a less expensive one etc.).
(iii)If your are not cashflow positive, and selling down your assets is not likely to bring you into a situation where you can be cashflow positive then you are possibly headed for bankruptcy. This is of course an extremely difficult thing to face - but if it is your new financial reality, then the sooner that it is faced, the sooner you will be on the other side of it - so start investigating the bankruptcy process.
And it might seem ironic - but seeking advice from an experienced financial planner - that doesn't work off commissions and doesn't push their own specialty products - and ideally one that helps people that are facing possible bankruptcy - is probably a very good idea. Its even possible that free financial planning and legal advice for people in financial hardship is available via government support services or via charity services.