Nice ramble but illogical.
Priests can tell about crimiaal activity, but not about "embarrassments" that's their choice. They should be treated like anyone else under the law. If an individual becomes aware of a criminal act, the law says they have to report it. Why should priests be immune from that ?
"The government has decided to attack God". The churches behaviour has become so separated from the Bible, especially the teachings of Jesus that they cannot claim to represent the Bible even for those who choose to believe that book, let alone secular society.
No, afaik, and from what i just read today, anything said DURING confession can't be relayed. It isn't their choice at all. Your group seems to have this default (erroneous) way of thinking, where the secular law is the only one that matters , or exists. For many people it isn't the only law that matters. We live in a world with multiple law systems, such as Catholic cannon law, secular law, Judaic laws, Islamic laws , etc ... It's a democratic feature to give each freedom , and works out for the best.
I don't know what you mean by "so separated". You shouldn't freak out too much if you see bad examples from time to time. Not that much of a surprise. If you want to see good examples, you can read about people like Joan of Arc, St Benedict, Frances, Faustina , Catherine of Siena , Mary Mackillop (Aus.), and other such royalty down through the ages . Faustina and Leopold are probably my favorites in the last 100 years, but I like Mary Mackillop too. From what little I know, swarms of people went looking for Leopold to confess their sins. He also made a marvelous prophecy before his death which came true: "The church and the friary will be hit by the bombs, but not this little cell. Here God exercised so much mercy for people, it must remain as a monument to God's goodness." And not to mention Mary Mackillop, who started heaps of schools for children.