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no just one that dosen't resort to racist comments...
Thank you, bellenuit, for typically constructive remarks.IMO it is a combination of the words said, to whom they are said and how they are said.
Good point.In a way, by being offended, Goodes has strengthened a belief that his race is inferior. By being offended, he is saying "I feel inferior". Had he been able to say "whatever, I'm not fussed", this would carry a strong implication of equal status....which is actually what he wants.
So if I call a white person a 'stupid bastard' that's OK, but it's not OK if directed to a black person?
Or is "stupid bastard" sufficiently devoid of racial implications to be OK?
(I'd have thought to call anyone an ape or a gorilla was insulting and abusive, but so far it seems that's not so, and only offensive if applied to an indigenous person.
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Just as the usual suspect have lined ups; the hand wringers, the PC brigade, the overly sensitive, the bleeding hearts and the alarmists have squealed like little piggies too.
Could have named them from the start.
Except blackieNo you can call a blackie any name you want
So if I call a white person a 'stupid bastard' that's OK, but it's not OK if directed to a black person?
Or is "stupid bastard" sufficiently devoid of racial implications to be OK?
(I'd have thought to call anyone an ape or a gorilla was insulting and abusive, but so far it seems that's not so, and only offensive if applied to an indigenous person.
That been said, there will always be people who WANT to be offended, such as some feminists always seeing an insult in anything Tony Abbott mutters.
Thank you, bellenuit, for typically constructive remarks.
So if I call a white person a 'stupid bastard' that's OK, but it's not OK if directed to a black person?
Or is "stupid bastard" sufficiently devoid of racial implications to be OK?
(I'd have thought to call anyone an ape or a gorilla was insulting and abusive, but so far it seems that's not so, and only offensive if applied to an indigenous person.
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Unbelievable, moXJO. If you have to put up with that sort of s**t, I admire all the more your objectivity on the matter overall.I was at a restaurant a while ago with some of my workers and were told
"I'm sorry we don't serve your kind in here"
While the statement had no swearing It's what it was implying not just about me, but about my family and a whole race that was offensive.
Yep, understood. I was talking about the context being the intent to offend.IMO calling anyone a stupid bastard is not OK, whether the person is white or black, unless it is quite obvious from the context that it is said in jest. The examples I gave of stupid Paddy and pommie bastard are as I mentioned expressions within the vernacular of a certain group of Australians, particularly those from an Anglo/Irish background and are said in camaraderie rather than malice.
It's this increasing tendency that makes some of us less likely to be sympathetic to claims of abuse and offence.That been said, there will always be people who WANT to be offended, such as some feminists always seeing an insult in anything Tony Abbott mutters.
+1. Perfectly said.
In Goodes' case I think he chose to be offended. Maybe the fact it was indigenous round made him a little more sensitive than would normally be the case.
I am sure their was a lot of emotion in the week preceeding.
Here is an experiment for those who don't get it. Write 'I'm a fu*king c*ck head' across your forehead in permanent texture. Make sure you write on the wife and kids as well. Now go about your daily life. Getting stares walking down the street yep brush it off. People giving you a hard time and laughing about it, keep it up. Getting asked to leave places or refused service because of it. yup no prob. Kids getting drilled for it at school, suck it up. Docs taking your kids away because obviously you are a bad parent yeah ok probably time to stop.
While it's a crass example this is probably the closest I can think of explaining dealing with racism.
Sure, not really any need to 'explain' that to me, Bushman. And before you get any more patronising, I used the example in a phrase intended to be offensive, so your point is somewhat lost on me.By the way Julia, there was once a time where calling someone a 'bastard', especially if they were conceived outside of wedlock, would have caused them enormous distress. So it is the context and what it represents in a particular society at a particular point in time, that counts.
That sums it up very well. Thanks for sharing.
I am originally a South African (moved here when I was twelve) and witnessed Apartheid. The most hated words for black South Africans were if a white South African (especially a police man) called them a 'bantu' or a 'kaffir'. 'Bantu' was the official word used on black identity documents to designate that you were a third class citizen (behind 'whites' and 'coloureds/Indians'). 'Kaffir' was a word that originally meant 'heathen' or 'ungodly' and represented the notion that black Africans were a lower 'species' than whites. Both words were another tool in the tool box of a racially-based system that gave white South Africans all the power and black South African no power. Thankfully this system has now been dismantled but it took black South Africans standing up to the regime to do so.
By the way, I am originally Afrikaans so this racial profiling was in my family's 'favour' at the time. And yes, certain members of my immediate family were 'old school' Afrikaaners of the 'bible in one hand, whip in the other' variety.
So I understand the power of racism which is why I cannot stand it. Ironically, when I came to Australia, all the kids at school used to call me 'racist' and make endless jokes about 'Lethal Weapon II'! You know the line'; 'diplomatic immunity'. That sucked at the time.
By the way Julia, there was once a time where calling someone a 'bastard', especially if they were conceived outside of wedlock, would have caused them enormous distress. So it is the context and what it represents in a particular society at a particular point in time, that counts.
Seriously all I've seen is every whitey scratching his head clueless as to what all the fuss is about for six pages.
I don't really support special treatment, welfare or any of the other BS associated with the PC brigade as I believe it just holds cultures back. I'm not blind either plenty of darkies get into trouble with the law or don't work.
I am not sensitive to name calling but the refusal of service, treatment in workplaces, or being overlooked (just recently at hospital with an african friend) yes it gets annoying.
Here is an experiment for those who don't get it. Write 'I'm a fu*king c*ck head' across your forehead in permanent texture. Make sure you write on the wife and kids as well. Now go about your daily life. Getting stares walking down the street yep brush it off. People giving you a hard time and laughing about it, keep it up. Getting asked to leave places or refused service because of it. yup no prob. Kids getting drilled for it at school, suck it up. Docs taking your kids away because obviously you are a bad parent yeah ok probably time to stop.
While it's a crass example this is probably the closest I can think of explaining dealing with racism.
As for Goodes I support his decision, not so much the media who ran with it. Honestly this thread has babbled on as much as news ltd
Thirteen year old children aren't usually publicly held to account for their actions as they are considered to have diminished responsibility because their brains aren't fully developed. Judges can tell many stories of people who did stupid things in their childhood but have gone on to lead productive and in some cases distinguished lives. Usually, no one thinks it would be fair to make people pay for the rest of their lives for the things they did as kids. This girl will though. Various commentators have already expressed the hope that the image of Goodes pointing at her will be brought out in 2033 in the same way the Winmar images from 1993 have been used. The girl will be 33 then.
The 13 girl was marched out of the stadium unaccompanied, interviewed by police for two hours on her own, named and shamed in the media and subject to vilification on internet forums. She has had her rights as a child violated and no one seems to care. We are constantly told that the rights of a child are paramount. Why is it different on this occasion?
Here's a good post from The Drum on the ABC web site that sums it up correctly I think -
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