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Oh.. I'm not a 'stormer', I did my dough with City's FMF, and I'm working to get some of back - but, I'm far from poor and I didn't throw in any of my property. I come here to learn and participate where possible.
I just think you're being hard on people who (1) feel the need to grieve about their substantial losses, and (2) are seeking restitution from those believed at fault. A lot of 'stormers' were financially decimated by Storm.
If I was a 'stormer' I'd be out to get as much as I could back from whomever I could - that's a natural reaction. I can see the reality of risking homes, but nevertheless, if the banks and Storm at fault, then they should pay.
Look, I kick my toe on a something I don't see, and I blame the object I kick - what is so humanly wrong in externalizing blame anyway?
Acceptance of loss takes time - for some it's relatively quick, for others it takes time.
I can see that on this thread there a people whose lives have been shattered, there is no point 'manhandling' them into 'reality'.
My point, is this - so, what if you're right? so what? It doesn't matter.
Sometimes being right simply doesn't matter.
mellifuous, I spent quite a long time with a Stormer on Saturday, some mates shouted him a few drinks and hopefully, provided a distraction from the quagmire that he is in.
He knows he would do things differently if he had his time over again. He chose Storm as he thought all the safety levers were in place and because there were other reputable companies involved. He's still shell shocked and very worried about the family's future.
I know if I was has in his shoes I'd be grasping at any straw or faint glimmer of hope that could extradite me from this event. I agree there's no benefit in bringing up how this all happened, there's only benefit in determinedly marching forward out of all of this.
I believe that it will be a busy day at Harry's place today.