I did a bad thing!

[aaronphetamine]

OK ladies and getlemen, I know its late but Im home on a sat night for a reason!

I did a bad bad bad thing !!!!

I meybe accidentally pashed the gorgeous 20yr old b day girl amongst other things.....who has a bf

Hey i knew Im doing the wrong thing the whole time but i just loved it. hahaha

met her at schoolies last yr, just couldnt help but do it / want to do it.

Hence me being home now, A friend dropped me off home. haha so i didnt get bashed up! hahaha. Im a little bit wasted at this present time. But im trying my best.

Ive got some really good photos as wellm whom which she told me not to show anyone. haha.

Can i have your thoughts people????? I think it shall be weird from now on with her, or should i deny it happened???

All in all though... it was sweet. Id do it again in a heart beat.. "hey that rhymes" !

I need some advice from an older person I cant talk to dad about this, caus last time somthing like this happened the guy and I got into a fight lol..

Thanks ladies and gentlemen

 

[reece55]

Interesting ........ your asking for personal advice on a stock forum.....

Ah well, here goes.......

OK, the responsible father (young though, I'm only 26) says that if you know that a girl has a partner, morally the right thing to do is to tell the girl that if she wants you to get rid of her boyfriend first...... However, I am all to familiar with what happens after a few nice beers and a hot girl, mate we are all human...

In terms of what you now, well your young, so I would say enjoy the moment, cause one day you will be married with kids and you will laugh about it, but if you wanna see her again, get her to ditch the boyfriend. However, if she is willing to cheat with you on her current partner, she doesn't sound like the trust worthy type (depending on the length of her existing relationship).....

Cheers

 

[Jikx]

Well, it really depends on what YOU want and what SHE wants. If you both want each other, then the BF has to go.

The good thing about parties is that you can claim you were drunk, while testing the waters on this issue, and beat a hasty retreat.

 

[krisbarry]

I reckon cause you are quite young, you can use 2 excuses in your favour; age being the first and the second would be the alcohol.

That said as you get older using those two excuses becomes a problem...and people start to wear thin. You may find yourself being single for a very long time.

When I was your age I cheated on my partner too, and drank like a fish also. The whole night club experience encourages this beahviour of mass drinking and cheating. But as you get older you tend to change and become more of a home-body. Dinner and house parties become the norm, where there is much less alcohol and much less cheating.

My advice would be to drink in moderation and find someone single, that way you are not doing anything wrong and you can still drink and have a woman too.

That said in my late 20's I had to deal with a partner who cheated on me then dumped me, and god it hurt like hell. We were together for over 6 years. It took me 8 months for the pain in my heart to go before I felt like even getting out of bed in the morning. I went into a pretty major depression. It then took me at least another 6 to 8 months to finally get up enough courage to start dating again.

Alas I now have a loving partner, but I am still very cautious. After being hurt in the past with love, I reckon you never quite heal from being cheated on and you learn very quickly to never trust again.

 

[theasxgorilla]

In terms of what you now, well your young, so I would say enjoy the moment, cause one day you will be married with kids and you will laugh about it

There is the nugget...20, sheeeeeet, to be that again. Enjoy!

 

[Julia]

By today, and probably with a hangover, you're seeing this for what it was - the sort of silly stuff we've all done at parties at some stage.

Don't know if her boyfriend was aware of your, umm, interlude, but if not, I'd suggest you both just shut up.

 

[BIG BWACULL]

"They did a bad bad thing" by CHRIS ISAAK GO CHRIS HE's A LEGEND
I think you had too many AARONPHETAMINES heh heh
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0jFqCTgEx-Y

 

[justincase]

Ive got some really good photos as wellm whom which she told me not to show anyone. haha.

I say, POST THE PHOTOS!!!!

 

[insider]

Mate High 5 for starters...

No just act like it was just a Saturday night for ya and that it didn't mean squat... don't deny it happened cos then she knows your intimidated and what not... and as far as I'm concerned it was her fault and not your's... remember that she is the one in the relationship... Unless of course you knew that before... then it's 25/75

Chances are that she will deny it and it will be sweet... It's like it never happened...

Relax about it... Hey I have girls flirting with me "trying to get a better deal" and little do they know it, but I know their boyfriends... It's about how you handle it that matters...

Here's a little fact I stumbled upon...

Generally speaking:

-Guy's will lie saying that they made out with a girl (even though they didn't) but are telling the truth when they say they didn't

-Girls on the other hand will deny they made out with a guy ( even though they did) however are telling the truth if they say they did...

However there's always the slim chance they are telling the truth in any circumstance...


As far as I'm concerned I'd be thankful, as the boyfriend, to find out that my girlfriend made out with some other guy because it paints a clearer picture of what to expect from her...

I don't accept second class behavior...

But here's another interesting thought...

Is it cheating if a girl makes out with a girl? Most guys say no!
But is it cheating if a girl makes out with another guy? all men say yes

What you see hear is a double standard...

 

[insider]

That said in my late 20's I had to deal with a partner who cheated on me then dumped me, and god it hurt like hell. We were together for over 6 years. It took me 8 months for the pain in my heart to go before I felt like even getting out of bed in the morning. I went into a pretty major depression. It then took me at least another 6 to 8 months to finally get up enough courage to start dating again.

It's been told that the only cure is to sleep with a dozen girls so that you can tell whether she was special... Never heard a guy say yes...

 

[insider]

By today, and probably with a hangover, you're seeing this for what it was - the sort of silly stuff we've all done at parties at some stage.

Don't know if her boyfriend was aware of your, umm, interlude, but if not, I'd suggest you both just shut up.

I have to laugh because he needs to also depend on everyone else to shut up... Will that happen?

Honestly Aaron... you should just go for the single ones

 

[larry123]

Or you could go to the gym and buff up so her boyfriend won't even think about coming near you.

 

[insider]

Or you could go to the gym and buff up so her boyfriend won't even think about coming near you.

Or just hang out with your tribe so that he would need his tribe to meet with you... Mafia call it protection...

 

[GreatPig]

Gotta agree with ASX Gorilla.

At 20, girlfriends come, girlfriends go... no big deal. If she was that set in her relationship, she wouldn't have done it.

Now, if she (or you) were married... that would be another story.

GP

 

[aaronphetamine]

Hey Guys, Pretty sweet responses! Firstly I posted this on this forum caus the computer was left on with this website on it!

Right now I'm thinking I don't really wanna speak with Holly again for a bit caus I don't know what to say about it ! I don't wanna go out with her or anything, We're just friends..but none the less an attractive friend.

And I'm taking the position that I was the innocent one here becuase I was just sitting outside talking to some people when she came to me to take some photos, and so I'm like yeah sure. And every photo was closer and closer...then shes like lets pretend kiss.. I was expecting it would be like a kiss on the lips you give your grandma etc.. But it wasn't! And hey im thinking in my mind.. this is awesome. The first time it was kinda weird didnt last too long.

And she says oh i dont know about this, and im like keep it down no one will know and anyway its just a friend kiss and any way holly, i dont think the flash went off so lets try it again! haahah, so yeah we did. And it was felt good. Then a girlfriend of hers took her away for a talking for a bit. haha. and yeah......

But her bf she's only had for like 2-3weeks and she just met him at a nightclub anyway, so its not like they were soulmates or anything. I mean if it was like that I wouldnt have done it.

I think it shalt never be discussed again, and will be tucked away for ever. No one will know.. cept for a few people.!!


We'll still be good mates, im sure though. So its all good.

Just reminiscing on past times, I remember back in summer going clubbin and we had this deal where she would get guys to buy her drinks and pass them of them to me! haha so in effect the guys would be buying my drinks.

And me giving her lifts when we were walking on the street caus apparantly its annoying and hurts walking in heels all night specially when drunk.

Thanks for your views, its been a good read ! haha

 

[insider]

Hey Guys, Pretty sweet responses! Firstly I posted this on this forum caus the computer was left on with this website on it!

Right now I'm thinking I don't really wanna speak with Holly again for a bit caus I don't know what to say about it ! I don't wanna go out with her or anything, We're just friends..but none the less an attractive friend.

And I'm taking the position that I was the innocent one here becuase I was just sitting outside talking to some people when she came to me to take some photos, and so I'm like yeah sure. And every photo was closer and closer...then shes like lets pretend kiss.. I was expecting it would be like a kiss on the lips you give your grandma etc.. But it wasn't! And hey im thinking in my mind.. this is awesome. The first time it was kinda weird didnt last too long.

And she says oh i dont know about this, and im like keep it down no one will know and anyway its just a friend kiss and any way holly, i dont think the flash went off so lets try it again! haahah, so yeah we did. And it was felt good. Then a girlfriend of hers took her away for a talking for a bit. haha. and yeah......

But her bf she's only had for like 2-3weeks and she just met him at a nightclub anyway, so its not like they were soulmates or anything. I mean if it was like that I wouldnt have done it.

I think it shalt never be discussed again, and will be tucked away for ever. No one will know.. cept for a few people.!!


We'll still be good mates, im sure though. So its all good.

Just reminiscing on past times, I remember back in summer going clubbin and we had this deal where she would get guys to buy her drinks and pass them of them to me! haha so in effect the guys would be buying my drinks.

And me giving her lifts when we were walking on the street caus apparantly its annoying and hurts walking in heels all night specially when drunk.

Thanks for your views, its been a good read ! haha

Yep! Some guys just don't get it... She gets guys to give you drinks... just goes to show how much a woman values an approval seeking guy offering a bribe (the drink) for the approval... let this be a lesson... I swear to God that I have never bought a girl a drink unless she was a friend... I buy my friends drinks not some flirtatious stranger... There is always a Psychological trade going on in any communication...

The sooo called 2 week Boyfriend is not a boyfriend in my eyes... There is such a thing called Courtship which is something animals do with each other before mating... Let's just say he isn't courting right... He's out of the game... No remorse there... However it is a gentlemanly and attractive thing to control yourself well and not cut somebody's lunch... If done right...

You can also knock him out of the picture easily by disqualifying him... how is that done? i hear you say... Well you subliminally do it through communication...

for example I would say while she was macking me...

"We shouldn't be doing this, this is sooooo wrong" But I wouldn't stop... I'd make out more...

"I can't believe we're making out" Make out some more

This is a good one "If we get caught, we're gonna get into huge trouble"

Then after this I'd say "But what about that boy?" This is sneaky because a boy is a male human without maturity and authority... Lower's his social level... If she does answer she'll say "oh he's nothing"... ta da

Then make out some more... and he is history

The thing that was going on there was a push pull kind of thing that creates sexual tension... You say one thing but do the opposite...

Damn I'm good

DO NOT RUSH IN AND TOUCH HER INAPPROPRIATELY... Men are like Microwaves (instant) and Women are like Kettles (needs to be warmed up)... Take things slowly...

It's taken me a long time and hard work to figure this all out but as a famous guy once said... "with Great power comes Great Responsibilty" I think it was Spiderman but still a great quote...

Good luck with it... But don't be Stupid

 

[BradK]

Mate, you sound obsessed with this Holly,....

Go to the library... you will find a nice girl there :

Cheers
Brad

 

[krisbarry]

I think it shalt never be discussed again, and will be tucked away for ever. No one will know.. cept for a few people.!!
:

Well it aint a secret anymore, now we have over 8,000 members here, so effectively you have just told them all, and being cyberspace, its here for life.

I reckon you are busted now

 

[krisbarry]

DO NOT RUSH IN AND TOUCH HER INAPPROPRIATELY... Men are like Microwaves (instant) and Women are like Kettles (needs to be warmed up)... Take things slowly...

:

That is just too funny, I love it, I love it, I love it!

 

[BlingBling]

But as you get older you tend to change and become more of a home-body. Dinner and house parties become the norm, where there is much less alcohol and much less cheating.

Agree with alot of that though less piass! Not in this house!

Good on ya mate, get em while ya can I say, Just make sure you don't get smashed (by the BF!)