Julia
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Sultan of Swing said:From a newbie....
Some of it comes down to 'delayed gratification' and lack of planning.
Some people have high incomes and spend it all thinking the income will last forever and others may have a far lower income but put a portion away for later 'just in case'.
Who's going to be better off in the long term.
Others just want and 'need' everything NOW! They think there's plenty of time later to 'save' for retirement or think the government will look after us cos 'We've always paid taxes and now they 'owe' us a pension'. (They never do the sums and work out that the little tax they've often paid would equate to just a few years of pension payments.)
Just my 2 cents
Julia said:Looking around our society we see all levels of income and asset bases.
Why do you think some people never have any money while others on an apparently quite small income manage to achieve some assets?
Is it to do with our genes, the role modelling we receive while growing up,
our peer relationships, where we live, how much education we have had etc?
Or is it more a matter of attitude and ambition?
What other factors do you think come into our level of affluence?
Julia
The Mint Man said:I think that stupid decisions play a huge part for some peple that are poor.
For instance:
Having a baby to get $4000 = Stupid
There are so many more I could come up with but Im sure you get my drift.
Of course role modeling/how we are brang up, education to some extent and yes peer relationships plays a huge part in this.
I also find it amazing that so many people cant do something as simple as budgeting. I mean how hard is it? even someone that dosnt have a great education can see that, For example, Foxtel may be un-affordable if your income is $500pw but bills are $400 and shopping $100. simple math. But for some reason people insist on having/buying things they cant afford.
Hopefully some of these people will visit that website on 'understanding money' that the government set up.
Looking around our society we see all levels of income and asset bases.
Why do you think some people never have any money while others on an apparently quite small income manage to achieve some assets?
Is it to do with our genes, the role modelling we receive while growing up,
our peer relationships, where we live, how much education we have had etc?
Or is it more a matter of attitude and ambition?
What other factors do you think come into our level of affluence?
Julia
Looking around our society we see all levels of income and asset bases.
Why do you think some people never have any money while others on an apparently quite small income manage to achieve some assets?
Is it to do with our genes, the role modelling we receive while growing up,
our peer relationships, where we live, how much education we have had etc?
Or is it more a matter of attitude and ambition?
What other factors do you think come into our level of affluence?
Julia
My wife died last month and I am sad. You people are good to talk with Thank you
just not built to recognise opportunities and chase the dollar.
It's this way because we have a system that rewards those that want to milk the system,those that work hard will be punished when retirement comes those that pissed their money on poker machines and drugs,grog,ect will be reward with a pension I have no problems with those that have a geniune need
cheers laurie
One shouldn't underestimate the enourmous influense of luck in the aquiring of wealth.
How's this for a story... bad timing, bad business, or bad luck?
I used to be in the furniture manufacturing game. One of my contemporaries was a Polish immigrant who came to OZ in the 60's and started a business making budget kitchen chairs in his father in law's garden shed.
The business grew over the years and in the mid eighties he was running a 50,000 sqft manufacturing plant in QLD... a big "small" business. He was doing very well, had the big house, latest high end merc etc etc.
The late 80's heralded in the previous housing boom which resulted in a big increase in demand for his product; he couldn't keep up with orders. So he decided to build on another 15,000 sqft of factory space, invest in more machinery, hire more people.
Well we all know what the late 80's early 90's heralded in too don't we? Those big interest rates and "the recession we had to have".
So just as he substantially increased his standing overhead, his sales dropped to below "pre" boom levels... catch 22.
He went BK, his wife left him etc.
He now lives in a humble home on the outskirts of Brisbane.. a broken man, and essentially "poor".
Bad timing, bad business, or bad luck?
A shotgun filled with bean bags or rock salt should scare them off quite well....I once owned a Milk Bar after my retirement, but kids used to pinch the lollies and break the milk bottles. After that I got fed up.
There was a news report on a study of the happiest countries in the world a few weeks ago. Despite being down on the GDP stakes, Puerto Rico came in at no 1. It has made the list of my holiday destinations over the next few years for that very reason.Reading posts on this subject I believe that a lot of people dont realise that you dont need money to be rich and having a lot of money doesnt necessarily make you rich.
Life is what you make of it. Sometimes money helps sometimes it is a hinderance,
Think about it !!!!!!!!!!!!
Some people never get a fair chance in the first place.
Stuff like getting sick at a young age, having parents that are disfunctional, all sorts of circumstances.
Looking around our society we see all levels of income and asset bases.
Why do you think some people never have any money while others on an apparently quite small income manage to achieve some assets?
Is it to do with our genes, the role modelling we receive while growing up,
our peer relationships, where we live, how much education we have had etc?
Or is it more a matter of attitude and ambition?
What other factors do you think come into our level of affluence?
Julia
As mentioned earlier being able to delay gratification is a huge factor.
There was some study with children about getting two lollies if they could avoid touching the one in front of them.
The kids which were able to avoid gratification when followed up later in life where all much better of.
Thanks to all for thoughtful and interesting responses.
I have to agree that luck does play some part. Here's an example of two couples who are friends of mine:
Couple A: self funded retirees in their 50's. They married at around age 20, had three perfect children. She was a schoolteacher and he worked in the Public Service. They both had lifetime contributions to Super. They have both been really healthy all their lives and their children caused no problems, either physical or psychological. There are now grandchildren and all is happy and content. They have a beautiful home, travel overseas at least twice a year and within Australia another three or four times a year.
Couple B: Second marriage. Neither had much of an education and consequently didn't have high earning careers or Super. Any assets accrued during the respective first marriages disappeared in the break-up. The stress involved with both marital splits encouraged somewhat excessive use of alcohol and tobacco in both partners. They manage to get enough cash together for deposit on an old house. Large mortgage. They both get sick.
Jobs have to go. Both are on Disability Pensions. Difficulty in making the mortgage payments. More alcohol and more cigarettes. The house, being old, develops lots of problems. They can't afford to fix these. More despair.
She gets cancer. Local health system is overloaded so the cancer has spread through her body by the time she is evaluated. She dies six months later.
When all this happens with Couple B, Couple A (who know couple B), are critical and say that it's all their own fault because they haven't planned properly.
What do you think?
Julia
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