Starting to become less and less reliant on other's opinions myself too. At least in saying that I mean it is easier to know when my own thinking is being influenced / persuaded by others. Said in another way - it would be much easier to "go missing into a dark room" and not feel too uncomfortable compared to a year ago.I've made a conscious effort as part of my New Financial Year's resolution to try and reduce the amount of crowd sourced opinions I listen to. I've found that in the past even when my thinking may be correct, having a roomful of other opinions will wash out my own. To be honest, I've found it liberating. I can see things with much more clarity or at least the things I think are important. Now if only I could get myself a nice villa on the beach in the Carribbean to "think".
I think the biggest problem for me, as I probably poorly explained in my first post, is the buzz of activity that reading / participating in discussion can bring on. With a lot of things in life - and the riddle of the media in particular - is that they only are perceived to become more important when there is more noise!
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Sounds familiar. Doesn't look like I'm the only one. The feeling of missing something!I make the same vows i.e. stay clear of this forum.
I think I have even posted on here before the Buffett quote that resonates with me the most..
Problem Is I keep ignoring it because the likes of you three above/below keep posting insightful things to spark the mind and I keep coming back for a fix and then read a little bit more then post......
Oh for some balance....or is it discipline?
Try again.