I really screwed up...

[lindsayf]

she is a toxic bitch and knew how to manipulate you and your emotions.
I suggest you aviod her like the plague-though I think I would prefer the plague
At least you know a bit about your own emotional vulnerabilities now
you could perhaps look at talking to a psychologist about this ( and the gambling) - might help you to
understand what a healthy relationship looks like and why she was able to leverage you so easily

 

[Erwin]

I feel obliged to post. You are being conned. She is a con woman. This is not an unusual circumstance. Cut your losses and run as far as possible before this degenerates to blackmail or threats. You can get an intervention order if this gets worse.

 

[So_Cynical]

Hello all,

A little bit about myself - I'm 31, single, live at home with my folks. I'm a white collar worker, and in my current job, I earn about $120k pa

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My current situation is, I have about $26k in assets in terms of shares and cash. But a lot of that cash was stocked away for myself in case I could not find a new job by April next year. I have this debt of about $29k on 15% interest.

On a scale of 1-10, how much do you think I have screwed up?

I would rate your screw up at about a 5, no where near a total disaster and more a somewhat costly adventure with sex...you can and will recover and probably will come out of this experience as a better person.

 

[Macquack]

I would rate your screw up at about a 5, no where near a total disaster and more a somewhat costly adventure with sex...you can and will recover and probably will come out of this experience as a better person.

I agree.

My rating is a low 3.

Get over it, if you think you screwed up, consider the poor bastard who mistakenly left his 11 month old baby to perish in his car instead of dropping off the child at the day care centre.
http://www.theaustralian.com.au/new...ads-memory-lapse/story-e6frg6nf-1226732566622

 

[Tyler Durden]

$29k!!!

These girls from South Korea are known to abuse the visas they are granted to come here and make as much money as possible and as fast as possible. I'd report them to immigration and the Korean government.