From another beginner's perspective... since I only started investing in January / February, I've done ok, especially considering some stupid missed opportunities. .
Mad Mel, good to find a fellow traveller. I lost heaps in 2008. I didn't trade myself but left it to others in investment units. I decided that I could be just as easily lose money without paying someone to do it for me. I sold the units and now investing myself (since January). I agree with you that the market has been kind. My portfolio has increased in paper value, but this means nothing, as I think you are implying, until the cash is banked. Its quite a roller coaster ride with elation when share prices go up and down to earth with a bump when they fall. I try to keep cash handy for opportunities and have missed some good ones! Retrospect, I have found, is a great science. If only...if only... My biggest challenge is knowing when to sell!