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I do have kids. So you can shut up thanks and I'll comment on this issue all I want!
Beej
Looking after the kids isn't hard, and I have two boys (3 & 7). I was a full time father for a few months when both boys were born. I would give up work in an instant to do it. I agree with beej it is one of the most fun jobs (apart from nappies).
You 2 bludgers obviously left the hard work to someone else and were just around for playtime or didnt do the job right.
You 2 bludgers obviously left the hard work to someone else and were just around for playtime or didnt do the job right.
LOL I don't think so, I did it on my own with no major drama. Maybe you just found it hard to do?
I never would have picked you as "Mr Mom" staying home with the kids while you sent the wife out to work Mr Burns! But there you go..... or are you really just a big old hypocrite?
Beej
What rot! Have you looked after your kids for days/weeks on end? I have - I can tell you it not the "hardest" job in Australia. It's maybe the most monotonous and repetitive/thankless job, and sometimes the "funnest", but far form the hardest! In fact just about anyone can (and does) do it!
In the old days the vast majority of women had no choice but stay home and look after the kids. Personally (and my wife, sisters, mother etc all agree), I think it is fantastic that women have the choice today to pursue other career interests, earn real income etc and have children. I can't believe that anyone can be so derisive of women who make this choice.
How has the government engineered this exactly? Are you sure it's just not what people actually want?? (The "great Australian dream that is). You seem to be full of such bitterness around this issue it seems that in reality you have the same desires but are just upset about what it costs? As has been pointed out so many times on this thread, if you really want to live on one income and have your partner stay at home with the kids, (assuming you don't earn enough to do this and live in Mosman) there are loads of cheap houses in all Australia's cities (sub $300k). Or you can choose to rent of course. It's your CHOICE whether you take this path, or instead want to own/live in a better located house etc and thus pay more.
Are you a ultra-religious or something? What's this "sanctity" of the weekend business? I don't know about you, but the weekends are when I do my shopping (retail, hardware, groceries, clothes), it's when I go out to restaurants and so on. I remember what things were like when every shop shut at 5pm and was only open on Sat mornings/Thu nights otherwise, it really sucked! Liberalisation of the labour market and the ability of retail businesses to open at hours when most of their customers can actually go to their shops was 100% a good move that has improved the lifestyle of a majority of people!.
Actually the boomers had plenty of kids, it's their ultra-selfish Gen-X and Gen-Y offspring, who spent all their money traveling the world when young, partying, living it up etc, and who now complain that they can't afford a 4 bedroom/2 bathroom house 5km's from Sydney CBD, and so use that as one of many excuses to put off having kids! IMO the baby-boomers were a far more financially responsible and conservative generation than either of Gen-X or Gen-Y - the boomers knew how to defer gratification, and understood that to get ahead in life takes time, compromises/sacrifices, patience, saving, long term planning etc etc. These are the traits large numbers of the newer generations lack.
PS: I am Gen-X by the way, but learned the financial habits of the BBs from my parents. By following their guidance I have ended up in a far stronger financial position than 95% of all the fellow Gen-Xers I grew up with/know etc.
If you ever looked after 2 young kids all day .........properly...........not just let them run wild to play among the traffic while you watched Opra you'd know different.
Anyway that's all off topic.
I think you've completely jumped the shark now.Money is more important than people these days, no doubt about it.
Rising house prices mean that the wife has to work to pay the mortgage so the kids have to go to daycare.
People who rejoice in this are short sighted and selfish and never see the big picture only their own wallet - oink !
I think you've completely jumped the shark now.
a. I know of plenty of single income families, some of them started as dual income, some as single.
b. If people decide to have both partners work so they can afford to live somewhere closer to a metropolitan centre, who are you or I to judge?
You have acknowledged previously that you are the bears' version of Robots; at least Robots appears happy. You sound absolutely miserable.
Who's post were you replying to ? not mine I hope because yours makes no sense at all.
Who are YOU to judge my obsevations of how things are these days or did I hit a sore spot with you ?????? more likely.
What on earth would make you think I'm miserable ? or don't you like a dose of realism just happy happy happy.........sorry I dont get those pills.
I was replying to your comment "Rising house prices mean that the wife has to work to pay the mortgage so the kids have to go to daycare". You did type that (you may need to read up a little higher).
I disagree with it, plenty of single income families still exist in Australia. You don't know any or don't believe so?
Secondly, in terms of happiness I can make any observation I like - 99% of your posts are complaints. That's not a healthy way to live. You have every perogative to post whatever you like - as do I.
Sore spot with me? Ha, I've just had one of the best weekends of my life & I have a 0630 flight to Sth America tomorrow. I don't get much happier than right now
Price for houses should fall if people stop buying houses for investment and speculation purposes. If someone has a house and buy another house for investment that's fair enough but hogging more than that is ****ing up people who are trying to get into buying their first house. People who wrote books like "From 0 to 130 Properties in 3.5 Years" should be shot because not only their hogging 128 houses from people who needs them, they actually teaching others to do it too.
Some agents say the boom grew when the Federal Government eased foreign investment rules on property last year
Hey kince, do you know why the Govt eased the investment rules?
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