Re: Gift ideas for a gf going abroad......
Give her the gift of missing you... What does that mean?... Put it this way... we only fall in love when we are away from someone... Why? because you think about them... What does that have to do with anything? Well the part of the brain that governs your memories also governs your emotions... OH that's why... Read about Paul Macleans 1952 Triune Brain theory...
Personally... If your gonna buy her an expensive gift you must be bonking her first if not go cheapo... What I recommend, if you're money conscience, is get her a pair of earrings, preferably hoops or ones with coloured stones... I'd go 9ct gold or White gold or silver (18Ct is a bit much)... then as a second little present buy her matching name brand lipstick as a kind of bonus... the name brand will make your chepo earrings look like the cream... If I got her Garnet earrings then I'd get a dark reddish brown lipstick as well as a second lipstick that's alot lighter for high lighting the lips... This shows that you're into brand names... you know what's good, you know how things work and by the way most girls don't know about high lighting their lips... Show's you can make decisions and most importantly it creates higher value for yourself...
If your not comfortable about the lipstick just go for the Earrings... Find out what gold she wears and if she wants or likes white gold just go for 9ct white gold because 99% of 18, 14, or 9 Ct whitegold is rhodium plated... When rhodium plated there is no visible difference between 18ct 14ct or 9ct white gold...
My profession is a designer, I am a natural with the chicks and I happen to work at a jewellery store... I think I know
Buying a girl a gift that's over the top is actually buying her disrespect for you... I've made this mistake before...
The most important thing is to make her work for you... What does this mean? Well here's a little task you should get her to do for ya... let's say she's buying you something you want like a DVD player... there's no surprise to it and you probably did the homework for her... you need her to work for you and I don't mean make you money...
I'll let you think of something but what I like to do before a date I tell the chick to buy me something under the value of $3 and it must be fun and exciting... Some make the mistake of buying me a water pistol so i squirt her and have fun all day messing up her hair... it's cool
Anyway... why get her to work for you? Because no one appreciates what comes to easy... that's why people play hard to get... It's to create appreciation...
Men make the mistake of acting like sperm which is disposable... and women act rare like eggs...
I really should write a book and maybe make a movie about dating and being successful... I'd make a killing
Any questions write me a message I don't mind!