No guilt or shame here. I'm not ashamed that I was born in the great depression, That my father died when I was 2 leaving my mum with 3 kids. There was no social security. I started work at 9 delivering milk in a horse and cart before and after school. When I was old enough I had no choice but to start work. I,m not ashamed about that BUT I NEVER COMPLAINED EITHER.numbercruncher said:Denial is the first sign of guilt
Shame on you.
Rented, paying half my wage, for 5 years after I married, still saved a few bob each week towards a block of land. By working an extra job and building my own home brick by brick I finally got ahead. It took me 20 years to get there
IT IS YOU WHO SHOULD BE ASHAMED.