Obviously people grieve differently, but it was actually her speech at her Father's Funeral that has concerned me the most. It was like she was doing 'show and tell' on a Monday morning. Kids are amazingly resilient, but, well, it was a performance. Her father had just died, suddenly, shockingly, and here she was, giving this speech at his funeral. Obviously just me, but I would have thought it a more normal part of the grief process for her to be in shock, distressed, crying, and well, grieving! I do wonder if it will revisit her later if she ever stops to think about it all.