Julia
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Basilio, I've read the details and maintain my view expressed earlier.It could look a bit precious Julia but it might be worth checking out the links in more detail and perhaps rethinking.
It appears that the CEO was repeatedly propositioning her. Not once not twice but many times. She approached the Board which told her to simply say "No" a bit louder. McInnes already had serious form and a number of complaints.
Clearly, McInnes had an ongoing and rather pathetic need to make sexual conquests, and it also appears that middle management at least failed to act on complaints about him. However, he'd only have continued his behaviour if he fairly frequently met with a positive response to his overtures, so let's not let those women off the hook entirely. ( probably there will be howls of outrage from the sisterhood here!)
So, I'm guessing when he was told politely 'no', his ego and/or his need for another notch on his belt overrode common sense, and he persisted.
I reckon with blokes like this politeness has no place. If she'd simply kneed him in the appropriate place at the first inappropriate touching, I doubt he'd have had another go.
You'll probably say that she should not have been put in a position where any overture occurred in the first place, and probably that's right. But this sort of stuff has been going on literally for ever and women had to deal with it long before we ever heard the term 'sexual harassment'.
Good Lord, if you think what transpired in this instance was sexual harassment, I'm damned if I know what you'd call some of the approaches I've received in many workplaces. But if such approaches were unwelcome, they certainly didn't try a second time.
I'm very sorry to hear about your friends, and you make a good point when you say if there is no penalty, it's effectively offering tacit approval of the behaviour.I suppose I feel strongly about this because on a personal level I have recently seen 2 friends attacked ( one raped at a party, one drugged in a night club). After dealing with the horror of the situation and making initial statements to the police it became clear that attempting to press charges was going to take far more pain and be far more uncertain than they could take. So like many, many other people in similar situations they have let the situation go. And the perpetuators are free to continue with no comeback.
However, action was eventually taken: McInnes was fired, had his payout significantly reduced, has had his reputation (which is everything in business) trashed, and Ms Fraser-Kirk has achieved the publicity she wants.
To compare women being drugged and/or raped with this case is imo to do a great disservice to the victims of the drugging and the rape.
I've been raped and the rapist tried to choke me when I fought back.
That is a life changing experience and induces a sense of powerlessness a woman will never forget.
Ms Fraser-Kirk is imo being extremely precious about some extremely stupid behaviour by someone who should have known better but whom she should have been able to repel by her own very straightforward means.
Exactly.Nor will I be shopping there.
bBut hang on I never did shop there and that is the reason. If I had though I doubt if I would see reason to stop. The culprit has gone so why punish the rest of the staff and the shareholders for his actions. Pity some of the women didnt just give him a good slap in the face, Or a kick in the #### and maybe it would have been settled earlier.
Basilio, I don't know how you can possibly offer the Ford case as remotely comparable. Ms Fraser-Kirk wasn't physically harmed, let alone killed.Unfortunately no-one in the commercial world takes you seriously if there arn't big bucks attached to the issue. That is why the $37 m claim is making everyone stand up and take notice. Are there precedents for this. Sure. And perhaps along somewhat similar lines.
Back in the early 70's Ford release a Ford Pinto car which exploded in flames when hit from the rear. This was because they relocated the petrol tank to the rear of the car to save money and make a bigger boot.
They knew this would kill many extra people in crashes. They calculated that in their estimations. When they were finally taken to court the jury decided that there was a case for punitive damages given the cold blooded way Ford had decided to allow the deaths to occur and their refusal to take simple actions that would have prevented these deaths
The comparison is ridiculous.
Could you perhaps explain why you think the $37 million is appropriate, bearing in mind what I offered earlier as average payouts for paraplegia and quadriplegia? As far as I can tell, Ms Fraser-Kirk is well and truly alive, and healthy, and she has the rest of her working life ahead of her, no doubt enhanced by all the publicity she is generating. Though, on second thoughts, maybe that's quite wrong: most potential employers will now avoid her at all costs, and understandably.
That's a really good point about the precedent which would be set. There are enough hysterical young women already without giving them the added incentive of massive payouts.Lets see ... the average Aussie earns $50k per year, so after 8 hrs/day, 5 days a week for 40 years that makes a total of $2 Million.
And she wants $37Million for some tasteless and sleazy propositions from her boss at a function?
Give me a break.
Greed like this actually hurts the sexual harassment cause because it portrays these women as money-hungry and vindictive. As for it going to charity.... yeah right.
These outlandish sums are a huge motivator for any woman who has been propositioned by a superior at the office party or who has a score to settle. What sort of precedent would this set?
The CEO is gone, the company is red-faced. Give her $37,000 and case-closed.
I realise my above views will be seen by some as traitorous to my gender, but to me it's an extension of the nanny state phenomenon which is becoming more and more prevalent. We expect to be protected against everything, to the point where any sense of personal responsibility is simply not going to be valued.