Julia
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Ah, thank you moXJO. I wondered if I was being unreasonable in thinking the same thing. I guess she's appealing to her established readership.This columnist is living in the past. Sexual attitudes have changed. Women have just as much right to enjoy sex however they want and not be judged, just as men do. And this is what is happening. Who is this idiot to play the moral police? Withholding sex to get an upper hand of those evil males
Great philosophy...
"humiliating sex scenarios "
"never demean themselves for male attention"
"Young women need to start taking back their power"
"sex - in whatever form it takes - quickly becomes demeaning when there is an imbalance of power"
"degrade and humiliate themselves "
Sounds like someone has an issue by equating sex and power in such a combative way. Go Go feminazi
Just because you enjoy whatever you enjoy, does not mean you do not have self respect. Nor does it mean you are a sex slave or that you are not confident in yourself.
It is people like this that seem to like to demean, and belittle people that may actually be enjoying their lives. At least until stuck up prudes want to interfere.
Cuttlefish, why only "in any kind of legal sense"? Is it quite out of the question in your mind that some women are genuinely attracted to this sort of group activity?Yes if a player is wrongly accused of forcing themselves on someone then they are deserving of sympathy, and I also would concede that its entirely possible that no 'force' was used in any kind of legal sense in this situation.
Clearly you wouldn't find it appealing. Neither would I. But I'm entirely aware that quite a number of women find it every bit as much, um, fun as do the blokes. I just don't quite get why you are so absolutely certain that this was not the case in this instance.
As Bunyip has said repeatedly: no one here knows what happens.
Perhaps her boyfriend found out about it a few days later, and she realised how silly she had been, therefore went to the police.
I don't know, and no longer really care.