Julia
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I've just read an interesting book "The Good Doctor: What Patients Want" by Prof. Ron Paterson, who was for ten years Health and Disability Commissioner in New Zealand. The book covers the obvious ethical requirements and necessary clinical standards and also discusses impaired doctors, e.g. those who are addicted to various drugs plus some convicted of quite horrendous sexual assault and rape of patients.
Reading this coincided with a visit to my own GP where - as usual - I had to wait an hour and a half.
He concedes he has a real problem with time management but doesn't ever seem to do anything to improve this.
Lovely bloke, good clinician, and possessed of genuine kindness. But oh, that waiting surrounded by coughing and snuffling, restless toddlers etc.
So I'd be interested in how you find your GP, and any specialists for that matter.
What is most important to you? Their clinical acumen? Your sense of being able to connect with them, of being listened to, cared for?
How long do you usually have to wait?
It's hard to manage time when you are a GP. Some people make a single appointment but bring their whole family in so they can get free consults for all the kids. Also, some GPs are so nice they don't know how to say "Time's up, get out of my room".
That's a good idea. Other doctors I know are quite happy if you phone half an hour before your appt and ask how they're going for time. But this one of mine insists you must be there at exactly the time of your appointment, regardless of how late he is, then - even if there are five people still ahead of you - you may not go off for a walk and come back closer to the time, apparently on the basis that he might 'suddenly catch up.' I think it's this rigidity that I find unreasonable.My wife's surgery uses a system like those coffee shops and pharmacies - you get a buzzer from the receptionist you can wander off and not be stuck in the waiting room.
I thought it was standard practice for GPs not to be on time? You mean to tell me they dont get taught that at uni?
In all seriousness my GP waiting time ranges from anywhere from 10minutes to an hour before i see him or her (there is two that I see, family practice and am comfortable with the two of them).
I did however have a go at doctor for running an hour late to my appointment. But I was the first appointment in the morning for some very minor surgery. He didnt offer any excuse as to why he was so late didnt even apologise. So I let him have it, after all you dont make the earliest possible appointment for no reason.
That's a good idea. Other doctors I know are quite happy if you phone half an hour before your appt and ask how they're going for time. But this one of mine insists you must be there at exactly the time of your appointment, regardless of how late he is, then - even if there are five people still ahead of you - you may not go off for a walk and come back closer to the time, apparently on the basis that he might 'suddenly catch up.' I think it's this rigidity that I find unreasonable.
That's part of the principle also with my GP. Similarly if you arrive two minutes after your appt time, and someone with not much to do who has the appt after you, happens to have arrived before you, he will see that person first, again because 'it looks better to all the people in the waiting room'.Inevitably I'm nearly always either lied to and told he's on time, or told to leave it another 20 mins and then had to wait anyway because other people (with later appointments than mine) were already in the waiting room and it "would be unfair to them/not look good" if I were seen first - despite me having an earlier appointment time.
But it doesn't apply across all doctors. When I'm sitting there waiting, the other three doctors have several patients in and out at about 15 minute intervals.This cavalier treatment of patients' time irks me no end - but is in no way restricted to the medical profession.
That's dreadful. At least that would never happen where I go. Any acute situation is always fitted in.Unfortunatley when it comes to some services, such as the GP the family has seen for the past 15 years, it's just too damn unattractive a proposition to change, or the alternatives on offer are no better! The medical centre I use actually refused to see my son recently as they were overbooked and not taking any further appointments for the day. He was running a temp of nearly 40, throwing up and quite unwell, yet couldn't get in to see our family GP of 15 years and had to sit in the waiting room of the nearest bulk-billing centre for nearly an hour and a half or wait 3 days until the following Monday to be seen by his own doctor. As he had an exam that day and needed a medical certificate for his school there was no alternative but to go to another medical centre. I'd switch permanently but they're all the same in my area
That's the thing, dutchie: itis easy to say, but as Dock has said, what's on offer is often no better.I know its easy to say but - change doctors.
Yes. That seems sensible for both doctor and patient. However, as I've explained above that's not on and the patient is required to be there at the appointed time regardless of how late the doctor is running.Ringing up the surgery and seeing how far behind the doctor is seems the best solution to having to wait.
Lots of caution required here. Better imo to keep friends as friends, and professional relationships just that.I agree with Tink too that its good if you can be friends with your doctor so that variations to normal consultancy is possible. As long as the friendship is not abused.(there are some drawbacks)
.I remember when I first started going there she would send me for so many tests and I would think, do I have to?
Through the years now, I am thankful she is like that
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