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Folks, I have decided to pay the fee to keep Julia's Guest Book up permanently and to make a donation to an animal welfare charity on behalf of the ASF community in her memory.
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Only learned today, under the shock; and messed up my initial posting
Not much to add: "une Grande Dame" we often disagreed, but always with the greatest respect.
My last PM to Julia was to wish her "health and happiness..wealth a third ranking item.Take care and enjoy". I was not aware she was sick and this now sounds so hollow.
I hope Julia got some happiness and joy in her latter days as she has had a hard life.Her legacy should be an increased respect of the opposing side, even when fully disagreeing. I will try.
Jeez, I haven't been this upset, since the last death in my family 20 years ago.
Given the general content of replies to this thread, perhaps in her honour we might all try to exhibit a little more of the qualities we admired in her.
A recurring theme is her willingness to talk civilly off line via pm's to members - often when there was not a common world view.
A number of us have noted her aversion to conflict and her desire to resolve it where possible.
Maybe if we all try to be more respectful of the views of others and less certain and dogmatic about our own we might make this community a better place - something that was clearly close to Julia's heart.
Particularly in the chat and political threads there are many who post with venemous language and clear hostility to those who dont share their world views, lets all try and be a little more tolerant and inclusive.
I suspect Julia would very much like that.
Folks, I have decided to pay the fee to keep Julia's Guest Book up permanently and to make a donation to an animal welfare charity on behalf of the ASF community in her memory.
If anyone else would like to join me in this endeavour, please feel free to deposit funds to the following bank account:
Name: Aussie Networks Pty Ltd
Acc #: 010787054
BSB: 638-060
Reference: Julia
Thanks!
My late father lived a full and independent life into his 80's. He mowed his own lawns and cared for a large garden including dozens of fruit trees which were his passion. He suddenly developed an acute medical condition, required surgery and subsequently was admitted to a nursing home. From being a fully functioning individual, he became dependent, and in constant pain and embarrassment. He was acutely miserable and repeatedly asked me to assist him to end his life. For obvious reasons, I could not assist.
Eventually, after a couple of months he was found dead on the beach just down from the nursing home having drowned himself. When I identified the body he was badly injured from being thrown against the rocks and coral.
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