hi all - I just registered today to the forum. As my name indicates, I am a bad trader. The only success I have found is in buy and selling retail products. I love it, actually. But back in 2012, I tried my hand in shares and CFD's.
When I began, I had delusions of grandeur - setting up stops so short you would have to kneel down to pat its head, and limits so long that the best bionic eye could not catch a glimpse of, and in turn lost money. The money I lost, was insignificant - however, that did not stop me. Learning a lesson, I came back with a vengeance, with some new information, and then lost again.
Repeated this cycle about 10 times, before I gave up and went back to the only investing I know - buying retail products, and retailing them. Currently I am in the process of building a retail store online because my initial industry is on a downturn and I need something to fall into. But I still could not get the fact that I had failed so utterly miserable on trading indexes.
So, I've opened up another play money account with IG, and am trying to learn the ropes.
So many of you here are just fantastic and carry so much knowledge up there in your noodles - where can I go to learn these skills. I have come to the realization long ago that this game is not something to earn big bucks really fast and is not a "get rich quick" scheme that so many others perceive it to be.
Thank you for your time
Hi Abadtrader, Sir O here, have a look at the thread in my signature, you might find some useful stuff....
Ok So in my reading of what you, (and others) have written I'm seeing something that I think needs to be brought to your attention, so here it is....
It took me many years to figure out that the way that other traders trade was not massively relevant to
me. Sure looking at the methodology of certain traders is useful, it can stimulate ideas and creativity, but here's the kicker...
those traders built that system/strategy/philosophy for themselves.
You speak to any successful trader and this sits at the core of what they do. They don't follow other people, they forge their own path, with something that is designed for them..... But before they can build something for them, they have to understand
themselves and the resources that they have.
So how much do you know about you? Are you the sort of person who enjoys action and excitement? Does the idea of doing 78 trades in a single trading session a) excite or b) frighten you? Does the idea of holding a position for 12+ months sound a) prudent or b) as boring as watching paint dry?
The above are just some examples of the kinds of things that as trading concerns, impact one thing...our emotional state. As emotional beings we have emotional bias based upon our experience, maturity and other factors. For about 40% of us, we only learn by doing, I hear the statement "Unless there is real money on the table its meaningless." (because of the now emotional engagement being made). This is not true for everyone, some of us indeed do learn by testing. For some traders they attempt to remove all emotion with rules and systems, but this is still an
emotional decision. (I have learned because of negative experiences that colour my trading experience, not to trust my emotions, therefore I will eliminate them from my trading system). To some people, trading without discretionary influence sounds like pure insanity.
To some using purely technical information for their decision process is da bomb, for others all those squiggles on a chart are just Greek to them and fundamental information is where the real game is.
One of the things I tell new people to the industry and trading is that in my experience the best starting point is you, and understanding yourself. If you can do this right, it will significantly cut down the amount of time it takes to become proficient and give you a greater chance of success. This is why only 20% of what we see around us in terms of trading information is relevant..
to us. I would therefore highly encourage you to do some deep navel gazing and have a think about how this might impact your trading style going forward......
To me this is what Tech was saying about shades of grey vs black and white. If I know myself and I see a new idea/system/strategy/indicator/piece of advice/whatever, if I lack knowledge about myself, that "whatever" is lost in a sea of grey. I don't know if it applies to me or not. If I know myself, I can say... relevant/not relevant, black/white pretty easily.
So my suggestion to you is.... "nosce te ipsum, tu ipse es" - "Know thyself, be thyself"
Good luck on your Journey.
Cheers
Sir O